Harper's New Monthly Magazine, Vol. III, No. XVII, October 1851Various
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Harper's New Monthly Magazine, Vol. III, No. XVII, October 1851
Various
American literature -- Periodicals; Civilization -- Periodicals; Culture -- Periodicals
Our wedding-day was fixed; and I ordered a carriage for two persons.
Company was invited, and Maria and I were married. Nothing can be more
commonplace than all this, excepting, perhaps, it be, that my wife and I
agreed to understand the ceremony in an earnest and real sense, and to
live accordingly. The result has been, that now, after having been
married five-and-twenty years (we celebrate our _silver nuptials_
to-morrow), we love each other better, and are happier together than we
were in the first hour of our union. We have, therefore, come to the
conclusion, that unhappiness in marriage does not proceed from the
indissolubility of marriage, as some say, but because the
wedding-service is not realized in the marriage.
Do not speak to me of the felicity of the honey-moon. It is but the
cooing of doves! No! we must walk together along thorny paths, penetrate
together the most hidden recesses of life, live together in pleasure and
pain, in joy and in sorrow; must forgive and be forgiven; and afterward
love better and love more. And as time goes on, something marvelous
occurs; we become lovely to each other, although wrinkles furrow the
cheek and forehead; and we become more youthful, though we add year to
year. Then no longer have worldly troubles, misfortunes, and failings
any power to dim the sun of our happiness, for it radiates from the eye
and the heart of our friend; and when our earthly existence draws to
its close, we feel indeed that our life and our love are eternal. And
this supernatural feeling is quite natural after all, for the deeper and
the more inwardly we penetrate into life, the more it opens in its depth
of eternal beauty. Many happy husbands and wives will testify to this.
But, observe, husband or wife! To qualify as such a witness, you must
have been at some little pains to find--"the right one." Don't take the
wrong one, inconsiderately.
LORD BROUGHAM AS A JUDGE.
Lord Brougham, as a judge, gave much greater satisfaction than was
generally expected. It was thought that his constitutional precipitancy,
joined to a deficiency of Chancery knowledge, would have incapacitated
him for the important office. In this, however, people were mistaken. He
was not so hot and hasty on the bench as he had been at the bar and in
the senate--though his constitutional infirmities in this respect did
occasionally show themselves even on the seat of justice. He carefully
applied himself to the merits of every case which came before him, and
soon showed with what rapidity he could acquire the quantity of Chancery
knowledge requisite to enable him to discharge the duties of his office
as judge, in at least a respectable manner.
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