Harvard Classics Volume 28: Essays English and American
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Harvard Classics Volume 28: Essays English and American
American essays; English essays
In truth, Milton's book on divorce--though only containing principles
which he continued to believe long after he had any personal reasons
for wishing to do so--was clearly suggested at first by the unusual
phenomena of his first marriage. His wife began by not speaking to
him, and finished by running away from him. Accordingly, like most
books which spring out of personal circumstances, his treatises on this
subject have a frankness and a mastery of detail which others on the
same topic sometimes want. He is remarkably free from one peculiarity
of modern writers on such matters. Several considerate gentlemen are
extremely anxious for the "rights of woman"; they think that women will
benefit by removing the bulwarks which the misguided experience of ages
has erected for their protection. A migratory system of domestic
existence might suit Madame Dudevant, and a few cases of singular
exception; but we cannot fancy that it would be, after all, so much to
the taste of most ladies as the present more permanent system. We have
some reminiscence of the stories of the wolf and the lamb, when we hear
amiable men addressing a female auditory (in books, of course) on the
advantages of a freer "development." We are perhaps wrong, but we
cherish an indistinct suspicion that an indefinite extension of the
power of selection would rather tend to the advantage of the sex which
more usually chooses. But we have no occasion to avow such opinions
now. Milton had no such modern views: he is frankly and honestly
anxious for the rights of the man. Of the doctrine that divorce is
only permitted for the help of wives, he exclaims, "Palpably uxorious!
who can be ignorant that woman was created for man, and not man for
woman? . . . What an injury is it after wedlock not to be beloved!
what to be slighted! what to be contended with in point of house-rule
who shall be the head; not for any parity of wisdom, for that were
something reasonable, but out of female pride! 'I suffer not,' saith
St. Paul, 'the woman to usurp authority over the man.' If the Apostle
could not suffer it," he naturally remarks, "into what mold is he
mortified that can?" He had a sincere desire to preserve men from the
society of unsocial and unsympathizing women; and that was his
principal idea.
His theory, to a certain extent, partakes of the same notion. The
following passage contains a perspicuous exposition of it:--
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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