Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of LifeDreiser, Theodore
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Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of Life
Dreiser, Theodore
American essays -- 20th century
Yet, to me, the impulses we are trying to suppress are, this side of
excess, perfectly normal, while the thing we think we want is an
infantile conception of life and its processes, unsuited to thinking men
and women. Our conviction is apparently that sexuality is essentially
wrong and debasing, and yet we do not really think so, as our intense
national interest in every phase of sex proves. We are afraid to face
ourselves honestly and openly in anything, neurotically so, and that is
what makes the American intellect so utterly contemptible and negligible
at times. What is nearer the truth is that our attitude is to be
psychoanalytically traced in various ways to the strangely exaggerated
(neurotic, I think) conceptions of the part sex or its over-emphasis
plays in life due to repression, which have followed upon impossible
religious theories brought from abroad (Quaker, Methodist, Puritan,
Mennonite, Catholic), and our reaction to them. These have developed
that repressive social and biologic ignorance regarding sex
characteristic of so many American families, offspring of these sects
even when they are no longer of them. The conviction that sex is
debasing, dominant at least at this time in nearly every American mind,
I believe, is to be traced so often to these earlier experiences,
particularly with regard to parents and their views. The average
American child--and I suppose England is not much better, judging by
their novels and morals--is permitted to base its ideals of life and
social relations, especially sex relations, on this earlier pretense on
the part of parents that sex does not exist--for them at least.
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