Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of LifeDreiser, Theodore
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Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of Life
Dreiser, Theodore
American essays -- 20th century
Now there is no need, and should be no desire, to evade the biologic
necessity implied by marriage. Children must be brought into the world
and reared if life is to go on. All the why-fors of this are given in a
thousand biologic and anthropologic volumes, and so no need to discuss
them here. But this much may be said, that among animals the limits of
the control of the maternal feeling or instinct are rigidly confined to
simple necessity. Love seems to disappear as soon as the young can
possibly walk or fly and get their food--proof of its mechanistic or
chemic quality and origin and its lack of any sacrosanct and “for
eternity” spiritual character. Indeed, under most phases of animal life
the father is absolutely indifferent to the fate of his offspring. In
many, perhaps most, animals he seems to care no more for his children
than if they were moving bushes. Certainly he cares no more for his own
than for those of another, and the idea of any love toward grandchildren
is absurd. Not even the mother shows this.
But it is of the greatest interest to note that with the appearance of
humanity and its ideas of home and property (both products of maternal
instinct or the chemic necessity in her for the care of her young)
there has arisen a natural extension of the scope and control of the
family instinct, so that the interest of the parents continues into or
through adult life. Support and protection of the mother continues
beyond the child-bearing period, grandchildren are beloved, more distant
relatives are held within the family affection, and the patriarchal type
of society is established. Since the higher ideals of society and
civilization have been permitted to arise the ægis of love has extended
over the nation, and patriotism, with its great influence in war and
history, has appeared. Finally that highest development of humanity,
ethics or love of humanity, has arisen (still an actual outgrowth and
extension of maternal instinct or love apparently), as well as the
theory of the existence of a Divine Father-Mother of humanity and of all
life.
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