Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of LifeDreiser, Theodore
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Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of Life
Dreiser, Theodore
American essays -- 20th century
One of the interesting phases of this puritanism or phariseeism is his
attitude toward women and their morality and their purity. If ever a
people has refined eroticism to a greater degree than the American I am
not aware of it. Owing to a theory of the doctrinaire acceptance of the
Mary legend possibly (Mary-olotry, no less), the good American, capable
of the same gross financial crimes previously indicated, has been able
to look upon most women, but more particularly those above him in the
social scale, as considerably more than human--angelic, no less, and
possessed of qualities the like of which are not to be found in any
breathing being, man, woman, child or animal. It matters not that his
cities and towns, like those of any other nation, are rife with sex;
that in each one are specific and often large areas devoted to Eros or
Venus. While maintaining them he is still blind to their existence or
import. He or his boys or his friends go--but----
Only a mentally one-sided nature or race such as the Anglo-Saxon could
have built upon any such asinine theory as this. One would suppose that
as they did, so they would have the courage to say, or at least cease
this endless pother as to superior virtue. But no. The purity, the
sanctity, the self-abnegation, the delicacy of women in America--how
these qualities have been exaggerated and dinned into our ears, until at
last the average scrubby non-reasoning male, quite capable of visiting
the gardens of Venus or taking a girl off the street, is no more able to
clearly visualize the creature before him than he is the central wilds
of Africa which he has never seen. A princess, a goddess, a divine
mother or creative principle, all the virtues, all the perfections, no
vices, no weaknesses, no errors--some such hodge-podge as this has come
to be the average Anglo-Saxon, or at least American, conception of the
average American woman. I do not say that a portion of this illusion is
not valuable, but as it stands now she is too good to be true, a
paragon, a myth! Actually, she doesn’t exist at all as he has been
taught to imagine her. She is nothing more than a two-legged biped like
the rest of us, but in consequence of this delusion sex itself, being a
violation of this paragon, has become a crime. We enter upon the earth,
it is true, in a none too artistic manner (conceived in iniquity and
born in sin, is the Biblical phrasing of it), but all this has long
since been glozed over, ignored, and to obviate its brutality as much
as possible the male has been called upon to purify himself in thought
and deed, to avoid all private speculation as to women and his
relationship to them, and, much more than that, to avoid all public
discussion, either by word of mouth or the printed page.
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