Hildreth's "Japan as It Was and Is": A Handbook of Old Japan, Volume 2 (of 2)Hildreth, Richard
History
Hildreth's "Japan as It Was and Is": A Handbook of Old Japan, Volume 2 (of 2)
Hildreth, Richard
Japan -- History
The match having been agreed upon, the bridegroom’s father sends a
present—nothing is done in Japan without presents—to the bride’s
father. The bearer, accompanied by the mediator, delivers not only the
presents and a written list or invoice of them, but a complimentary
message also. For these presents a written receipt is given, and, three
days after, the bearer and those who attended him are complimented by
a counter present.
The following articles are then got ready at the bride’s house by the
way of outfit: A white wedding-dress, embroidered with gold or silver;
four other dresses, one with a red, a second with a black ground, one
plain white; a fourth plain yellow; a number of gowns, both lined
and single, and all the other requisites of a wardrobe, as girdles,
bathing-gowns, under robes, both fine and coarse, a thick-furred robe
for a bed-gown; a mattress to sleep on; bedclothes; pillows; gloves;
carpets; bed-curtains; a silk cap; a furred cotton cap; long and short
towels; a cloak; a covering for a norimono; a bag with a mixture of
bran, wheat, and dried herbs, to be used in washing the face; also
a bag of tooth-picks, some skeins of thin twine, made of twisted
paper, for tying up the hair; a small hand-mirror; a little box of
medicines; a small packet of the best columbac, for painting the lips;
several kinds of paper for doing up packages; also paper for writing
letters; a _koto_ (a kind of harp); a _samisen_ (a sort of guitar);
a small chest for holding paper; an inkhorn; a pin-cushion; several
sorts of needles; a box of combs; a mirror with its stand; a mixture
for blacking the teeth (the distinguishing mark of married women in
Japan, some blackening them the moment they are married, and others
when they become pregnant); curling-tongs for the hair; scissors; a
letter-case; a case of razors; several small boxes, varnished or made
of osier; dusters; a case of articles for dressing the hair; an iron
for smoothing linen; a large osier basket to hold the linen; a tub
with handles; a small dagger, with a white sheath, in a little bag
(thought to drive away evil spirits and to preserve from infectious
exhalations,—a quality ascribed also to the swords worn by the men);
complimentary cards, made of paper, variously colored, and gilt or
silvered at the ends, to tie round presents; _noshi_, a species
of edible sea-weed, of which small pieces are attached to every
congratulatory present; silk thread; a small tub to hold flax; several
slender bamboos, used in hanging out clothes to dry; circular fans;
common fans; fire-tureens; and—what certainly ought to form a part
of the bridal outfit of our city belles—a small bench for supporting
the elbows when the owner has nothing to do! Several books are also
added, poems and stories, moral precepts, a book on the duties of woman
in the married state, and another—the very one we are now giving an
abstract of—on the etiquette of the marriage ceremony. Two different
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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