Hildreth's "Japan as It Was and Is": A Handbook of Old Japan, Volume 2 (of 2)Hildreth, Richard
History
Hildreth's "Japan as It Was and Is": A Handbook of Old Japan, Volume 2 (of 2)
Hildreth, Richard
Japan -- History
The marriage being now about to take place, the bride is led by one
of her waiting-women into the room where it is to be celebrated,
and is seated there with two female attendants on either side. The
bridegroom then leaves his room and comes into this apartment. No other
persons are present except the mediator and his wife. The formality
of the marriage consists in drinking sake after a particular manner.
The sake is poured out by two young girls, one of whom is called the
male butterfly, and the other the female butterfly,—appellations
derived from their _susu_, or sake-jugs, each of which is adorned
with a paper-butterfly. As these insects always fly about in pairs,
it is intended to intimate that so the husband and wife ought to be
continually together. The male butterfly always pours out the sake to
be drank, but, before doing so, turns a little to the left, when the
female butterfly pours from her jug a little sake into the jug of the
other, who then proceeds to pour out for the ceremony. For drinking it,
three bowls are used, placed on a tray or waiter, one within the other.
The bride takes the uppermost, holds it in both hands, while some sake
is poured into it, sips a little, three several times, and then hands
it to the groom. He drinks three times in like manner, puts the bowl
under the third, takes the second, hands it to be filled, drinks out
of it three times, and passes it to the bride. She drinks three times,
puts the second bowl under the first, takes the third, holds it to be
filled, drinks three times, and then hands it to the groom, who does
the same, and afterwards puts this bowl under the first. This ceremony
constitutes the marriage. The bride’s parents, who meanwhile were in
another room, being informed that this ceremony is over, come in, as do
the bridegroom’s parents and brothers, and seat themselves in a certain
order. The sake, with other refreshments interspersed, is then served,
by the two butterflies, to these relations of the married parties in a
prescribed order, indicated by the mediator; the two families, by this
ceremony, extending, as it were, to each other the alliance already
contracted between the bride and bridegroom.
Next follows the delivery of certain presents on the part of the bride
to the bridegroom, his relatives, and the servants of the household.
These are brought by a female, who arranges them in order in an
adjoining room, and hands written lists of them to the mediator, who
passes it to the bridegroom’s father, who, having received the paper,
returns thanks, then reads the lists aloud, and again returns thanks.
The bridegroom then presents the bride with two robes, one with a red
and the other with a black ground, embroidered with gold or silver. The
bride retires, puts on these robes, and again returns. Refreshments of
a peculiar kind then follow, the bride, to spare her bashfulness, being
suffered to eat in a room by herself.
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