History of Human SocietyBlackmar, Frank W. (Frank Wilson)
History
History of Human Society
Blackmar, Frank W. (Frank Wilson)
Civilization; Progress; Sociology
Marriage was a prominent social institution among the tribes, as it
always is where the monogamic family prevails. There were doubtless
traces of the old custom, common to most races, of wife capture, a
custom which long continued as a mere fiction to some extent among the
peasantry of certain localities in Germany. In this survival the bride
makes feint to escape, and is chased and captured by the bridegroom.
Some modern authorities have tried to show that there is a survival of
this old custom of courtship, whereby the advances are supposed to be
made by the men. The engagement to be married meant a great deal more
in those days than at present. It was more than half of the marriage
ceremony. Just as among the Hebrews, the engagement was the real
marriage contract, and the latter ceremony only a form, so among the
Germans the same custom prevailed. After engagement, until marriage
they were called the Braeut and Braeutigam, but when wedded they ceased
to be thus entitled. The betrothal contained the essential bonds of
matrimony, and was far more important before the law than the later
ceremony. In modern usage the opposite custom prevails.
The woman was always under wardship; her father was her natural
guardian and made the marriage contract or the engagement. When a
woman married, she brought with her a dower, furnished by her parents.
This consisted of all house furnishings, clothes, and jewelry, and a
more substantial dower in lands, money, or live stock. On the morning
of the day after marriage the husband gave to the wife the
"Morgengabe," {290} which thereafter was her own property. It was the
wedding-present of the groom. This is but a survival of the time when
marriage among the Germans meant a simple purchase of a wife. It is
said that "ein Weib zu kaufen" (to buy a wife) was the common term for
getting engaged, and that this phrase was so used as late as the
eleventh century. The wardship was called the _mundium_, and when the
maid left her father's house for another home, her _mundium_ was
transferred from her father to her husband. This dower began, indeed,
with the engagement, and the price of the _mundium_ was paid over to
the guardian at the time of the contract. From this time suit for
breach of promise could be brought. These are the primitive customs of
the marriage ceremony, but they were changed from time to time.
Through the influence of Christianity, the woman finally attained
prominence in the matter of choosing a husband, and learned, much to
her satisfaction, to make her own contracts in matrimony.
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