Home Influence: A Tale for Mothers and DaughtersAguilar, Grace
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Home Influence: A Tale for Mothers and Daughters
Aguilar, Grace
Domestic fiction; Mothers and daughters -- Fiction
"You have not quite guessed it, Lucy. Appearances were so very strongly
against that poor child, that I am not at all astonished you should have
disbelieved her assertion. In the moment of irritation, it is not
unlikely I should have done so myself; but the favor I am going to ask
you, is merely that you will try and _never show_ that you doubt her
word, or refer to her past failures. I am quite convinced that untruth
is not Ellen's natural disposition, but that it has been caused by the
same circumstances which have made her such a painfully timid, too
humble character. If, with all her efforts to conquer herself, she still
finds her word doubted, and the past brought forward, she never will be
able to succeed. Examine as strictly and carefully as you please, and as
I am sure she will desire, if necessary--as she did to-day--but oblige
me, and _never doubt her_. If she finds we never do, it will raise her
self-esteem, and give her a still further incentive to adhere as
strictly to the truth, as she sees we believe she does. I am certain the
habit of falsehood has often been strengthened by the injudicious and
cruel references to one or two childish failures. If I am never to be
believed, what is the use of trying to tell the truth? is the very
natural question; and the present pain of carefulness being greater than
the visible amount of evil, the habit is confirmed. Will you oblige me?"
"Of course I will, dearest Mrs. Hamilton; how can you talk so! Have you
not a right to desire what you think proper, in my guidance of your
children, instead of so appealing to me as an equal?"
"And are you not? My dear Lucy, have I ever, in act or word, considered
you otherwise? In the very intrusting my children to your care, do I not
prove that I must think you so? Have you lived with me all these years,
and not yet discovered that I have some few notions peculiar perhaps to
myself, but that one among them is, that we can never consider too much,
or be too grateful to those invaluable friends who help us in the
training of our children?"
"I have lived long enough with you to know that there never was, never
can be, any woman like you, either as wife, mother, mistress, or
friend!" exclaimed Miss Harcourt, with most unusual fervor.
"You did not know your own mother, dearest Lucy, as how I wish you had,
or you would not think so. Every firm, truthful, estimable quality I may
possess, under God's blessing, I owe to her. As a young child, before
she came to me, and some years afterward, I was more like Ellen than
either of my own darlings; and that perhaps explains the secret of my
love for, and forbearance with her."
"Like Ellen!" repeated Miss Harcourt, much surprised; "forgive me, but,
indeed, I can scarcely believe it."
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