"Mrs. Dickens and I have lived unhappily for many years. Hardly any
one who has known us intimately can fail to have known that we are
in all respects of character and temperament wonderfully unsuited
to each other. I suppose that no two people, not vicious in
themselves, were ever joined together, who had greater difficulty
in understanding one another, or who had less in common. An
attached woman-servant (more friend to both of us than servant),
who lived with us sixteen years and had the closest familiar
experience of this unhappiness in London, in the country, in
France, in Italy, wherever we have been, year after year, month
after month, week after week, day after day, will bear testimony to
this. Nothing has on many occasions stood between us and a
separation but Mrs. Dickens's sister, Georgina Hogarth. From the
age of fifteen, she has devoted herself to our home and our
children. She has been their playmate, nurse, instructress, friend,
protectress, adviser, companion. In the manly consideration towards
Mrs. Dickens, which I owe to my wife, I will only remark of her
that the peculiarity of her character has thrown all the children
on some one else. I do not know, I cannot by any stretch of fancy
imagine, what would have become of them but for this aunt, who has
grown up with them, to whom they are devoted, and who has
sacrificed the best part of her youth and life to them. She has
remonstrated, reasoned, suffered, and toiled, and come again to
prevent a separation between Mrs. Dickens and me. Mrs. Dickens has
often expressed to her her sense of her affectionate care and
devotion in the house,--never more strongly than within the last
twelve months."
Again, in the public statement which he prepared for "Household Words,"
alluding to a multitude of damaging rumors which were quickly put in
circulation, he says:--
"By some means, arising out of wickedness or out of folly or out of
inconceivable wild chance, or out of all three, this trouble has
been made the occasion of misrepresentations most grossly false,
most monstrous, and most cruel,--involving not only me, but
innocent persons dear to my heart, and innocent persons of whom I
have no knowledge, if indeed they have any existence,--and so
widely spread that I doubt if one reader in a thousand will peruse
these lines by whom some touch of the breath of these slanderers
will not have passed like an unwholesome air.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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