House and Home Papers: Seventh EditionStowe, Harriet Beecher
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House and Home Papers: Seventh Edition
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
Home economics
“But, having said all this, I must admit, _per contra_, not only a great
deal of crude, disagreeable talk in these conventions, but a too great
tendency of the age to make the education of women anti-domestic. It
seems as if the world never could advance, except like ships under a
head-wind, tacking and going too far, now in this direction, and now in
the opposite. Our common-school system now rejects sewing from the
education of girls, which very properly used to occupy many hours daily
in school a generation ago. The daughters of laborers and artisans are
put through algebra, geometry, trigonometry, and the higher mathematics,
to the entire neglect of that learning which belongs distinctively to
woman. A girl cannot keep pace with her class, if she gives any time to
domestic matters; and accordingly she is excused from them all during
the whole term of her education. The boy of a family, at an early age,
is put to a trade, or the labors of a farm; the father becomes impatient
of his support, and requires of him to care for himself. Hence an
interrupted education,—learning coming by snatches in the winter months
or in the intervals of work. As the result, the females in our country
towns are commonly, in mental culture, vastly in advance of the males of
the same household; but with this comes a physical delicacy, the result
of an exclusive use of the brain and a neglect of the muscular system,
with great inefficiency in practical domestic duties. The race of
strong, hardy, cheerful girls, that used to grow up in country places,
and made the bright, neat, New England kitchens of old times,—the girls
that could wash, iron, brew, bake, harness a horse and drive him, no
less than braid straw, embroider, draw, paint, and read innumerable
books,—this race of women, pride of olden time, is daily lessening; and
in their stead come the fragile, easily fatigued, languid girls of a
modern age, drilled in book-learning, ignorant of common things. The
great danger of all this, and of the evils that come from it, is that
society by and by will turn as blindly against female intellectual
culture as it now advocates it, and, having worked disproportionately
one way, will work disproportionately in the opposite direction.”
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