House and Home Papers: Seventh EditionStowe, Harriet Beecher
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House and Home Papers: Seventh Edition
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
Home economics
“And, pray, what commandment of the Bible ever said children should not
play on Sunday?” said I. “We are forbidden to work, and we see the
reason why; but lambs frisk and robins sing on Sunday; and little
children, who are as yet more than half animals, must not be made to
keep the day in the manner proper to our more developed faculties. As
much cheerful, attractive religious instruction as they can bear without
weariness may be given, and then they may simply be restrained from
disturbing others. Say to the little one,—‘This day we have noble and
beautiful things to think of that interest us deeply; you are a child;
you cannot read and think and enjoy such things as much as we can; you
may play softly and quietly, and remember not to make a disturbance.’ I
would take a child to public worship at least once of a Sunday; it forms
a good habit in him. If the sermon be long and unintelligible, there are
the little Sabbath-school books in every child’s hands; and while the
grown people are getting what they understand, who shall forbid a
child’s getting what is suited to him in a way that interests him and
disturbs nobody? The Sabbath school is the child’s church; and happily
it is yearly becoming a more and more attractive institution. I approve
the custom of those who beautify the Sabbath school-room with plants,
flowers, and pictures, thus making it an attractive place to the
childish eye. The more this custom prevails, the more charming in after
years will be the memories of Sunday.
“It is most especially to be desired that the whole air and aspect of
the day should be one of cheerfulness. Even the new dresses, new
bonnets, and new shoes, in which children delight of a Sunday, should
not be despised. They have their value in marking the day as a festival;
and it is better for the child to long for Sunday for the sake of his
little new shoes than that he should hate and dread it as a period of
wearisome restraint. All the latitude should be given to children that
can be, consistently with fixing in their minds the idea of a sacred
season. I would rather that the atmosphere of the day should resemble
that of a weekly Thanksgiving than that it should make its mark on the
tender mind only by the memory of deprivations and restrictions.”
“Well,” said Bob, “here’s Marianne always breaking her heart about my
reading on Sunday. Now I hold that what is bad on Sunday is bad on
Monday,—and what is good on Monday is good on Sunday.”
“We cannot abridge other people’s liberty,” said I. “The generous,
confiding spirit of Christianity has imposed not a single restriction
upon us in reference to Sunday. The day is put at our disposal as a good
Father hands a piece of money to his child:—‘There it is; take it and
spend it well.’ The child knows from his father’s character what he
means by spending it well; but he is left free to use his own judgment
as to the mode.
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