House and Home Papers: Seventh EditionStowe, Harriet Beecher
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House and Home Papers: Seventh Edition
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
Home economics
“Well,” said Bob, “if Sunday is given for our own individual
improvement, I for one should not go to church. I think I get a great
deal more good in staying at home and reading.”
“There are two considerations to be taken into account in reference to
this matter of church-going,” I replied. “One relates to our duty as
members of society in keeping up the influence of the Sabbath, and
causing it to be respected in the community; the other, to the proper
disposition of our time for our own moral improvement. As members of the
community, we should go to church, and do all in our power to support
the outward ordinances of religion. If a conscientious man makes up his
mind that Sunday is a day for outward acts of worship and reverence, he
should do his own part as an individual towards sustaining these
observances. Even though he may have such mental and moral resources
that as an individual he could gain much more in solitude than in a
congregation, still he owes to the congregation the influence of his
presence and sympathy. But I have never yet seen the man, however finely
gifted morally and intellectually, whom I thought in the long run a
gainer in either of these respects by the neglect of public worship. I
have seen many who in their pride kept aloof from the sympathies and
communion of their brethren, who lost strength morally, and deteriorated
in ways that made themselves painfully felt. Sunday is apt in such cases
to degenerate into a day of mere mental idleness and reverie, or to
become a sort of waste-paper box for scraps, odds and ends of secular
affairs.
“As to those very good people—and many such there are—who go straight on
with the work of life on Sunday, on the plea that “to labor is to pray,”
I simply think they are mistaken. In the first place, to labor is _not_
the same thing as to pray. It may sometimes be as good a thing to do,
and in some cases even a better thing; but it is not the same thing. A
man might as well never write a letter to his wife on the plea that
making money for her is writing to her. It may possibly be quite as
great a proof of love to work for a wife as to write to her, but few
wives would not say that both were not better than either alone.
Furthermore, there is no doubt that the intervention of one day of
spiritual rest and aspiration so refreshes a man’s whole nature, and
oils the many wheels of existence, that he who allows himself a weekly
Sabbath does more work in the course of his life for the omission of
work on that day.
“A young student in a French college, where the examinations are rigidly
severe, found by experience that he succeeded best in his examination by
allowing one day of entire rest just before it. His brain and nervous
system refreshed in this way carried him through the work better than if
taxed to the last moment. There are men transacting a large and
complicated business who can testify to the same influence from the
repose of the Sabbath.
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