House and Home Papers: Seventh EditionStowe, Harriet Beecher
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House and Home Papers: Seventh Edition
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
Home economics
In this country, our democratic institutions have removed the
superincumbent pressure which in the Old World confines the
servants to a regular orbit. They come here feeling that this is
somehow a land of liberty, and with very dim and confused
notions of what liberty is. They are for the most part the raw,
untrained Irish peasantry, and the wonder is, that, with all the
unreasoning heats and prejudices of the Celtic blood, all the
necessary ignorance and rawness, there should be the measure of
comfort and success there is in our domestic arrangements. But,
so long as things are so, there will be constant changes and
interruptions in every domestic establishment, and constantly
recurring interregnums when the mistress must put her own hand
to the work, whether the hand be a trained or an untrained one.
As matters now are, the young housekeeper takes life at the
hardest. She has very little strength,—no experience to teach
her how to save her strength. She knows nothing experimentally
of the simplest processes necessary to keep her family
comfortably fed and clothed; and she has a way of looking at all
these things which makes them particularly hard and distasteful
to her. She does not escape being obliged to do house-work at
intervals, but she does it in a weak, blundering, confused way,
that makes it twice as hard and disagreeable as it need be.
Now what I have to say is, that, if every young woman learned to
do house-work and cultivated her practical faculties in early
life, she would, in the first place, be much more likely to keep
her servants, and, in the second place, if she lost them
temporarily, would avoid all that wear and tear of the nervous
system which comes from constant ill-success in those
departments on which family health and temper mainly depend.
This is one of the peculiarities of our American life which
require a peculiar training. Why not face it sensibly?
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