House and Home Papers: Seventh EditionStowe, Harriet Beecher
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House and Home Papers: Seventh Edition
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
Home economics
“There have been from time to time, among well-meaning Christian people,
retrenchment societies on high moral grounds, which have failed for want
of knowledge how to manage the complicated question of necessaries and
luxuries. These words have a signification in the case of different
people as varied as the varieties of human habit and constitution. It is
a department impossible to be bound by external rules; but none the less
should every high-minded Christian soul in this matter have a law unto
itself. It may safely be laid down as a general rule, that no income,
however large or however small, should be unblessed by the divine touch
of self-sacrifice. Something for the poor, the sorrowing, the hungry,
the tempted, and the weak should be taken from _what is our own_ at the
expense of some personal sacrifice, or we suffer more morally than the
brother from whom we withdraw it. Even the Lord of all, when dwelling
among men, out of that slender private purse which he accepted for his
little family of chosen ones, had ever something reserved to give to the
poor. It is easy to say, ‘It is but a drop in the bucket. I cannot
remove the great mass of misery in the world. What little I could save
or give does nothing.’ It does this, if no more,—it prevents one soul,
and that soul your own, from drying and hardening into utter selfishness
and insensibility; it enables you to say I have done something; taken
one atom from the great heap of sins and miseries and placed it on the
side of good.
“The Sisters of Charity and the Friends, each with their different
costume of plainness and self-denial, and other noble-hearted women of
no particular outward order, but kindred in spirit, have shown to
womanhood, on the battle-field and in the hospital, a more excellent
way,—a beauty and nobility before which all the common graces and
ornaments of the sex fade, appeal like dim candles by the pure, eternal
stars.”
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IX.
SERVANTS.
IN the course of my papers various domestic revolutions have occurred.
Our Marianne has gone from us with a new name to a new life, and a
modest little establishment not many squares off claims about as much of
my wife’s and Jenny’s busy thoughts as those of the proper mistress.
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