Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
are not to be thought of as victims of self-sacrifice. Many of them
rejoiced in just that isolation, and daring, and persistence; so that it
was not self-sacrifice but self-realization. Conflict is a necessity of
the active soul, and if a social order could be created from which it
were absent, that order would perish as uncongenial to human nature. “To
be a man is to be a non-conformer.”
I think that people go into all sorts of enterprises, for instance into
novel and unaccredited sorts of philanthropy, with a spirit of adventure
not far removed from the spirit that seeks the North Pole. It is neither
true nor wholesome to think of the “good” as actuated by motives
radically different in kind from those of ordinary human nature; and I
imagine the best of them are far from wishing to be thus thought of.
Undertakings of reform and philanthropy appeal to the mind in a double
aspect. There is, of course, the desire to accomplish some worthy end,
to effectuate some cherished sentiment which the world appears to
ignore, to benefit the oppressed, to advance human knowledge, or the
like. But behind that is the vague need of self-expression, of creation,
of a momentous experience, so that one may know that one has really
lived. And the finer imaginations are likely to find this career of
novelty and daring, not in the somewhat outworn paths of war and
exploration, but in new and precarious kinds of social activity. So one
may sometimes meet in social settlements and charity organization
bureaus the very sort of people that led the Crusades into Palestine. I
do not speak at random, but have several persons in mind who seem to me
to be of this sort.
In its second aspect non-conformity may be regarded as a remoter
conformity. The rebellion against social influence is only partial and
apparent; and the one who seems to be out of step with the procession is
really keeping time to another music. As Thoreau said, he hears a
different drummer. If a boy refuses the occupation his parents and
friends think best for him, and persists in working at something strange
and fantastic, like art or science, it is sure to be the case that his
most vivid life is not with those about him at all, but with the masters
he has known through books, or perhaps seen and heard for a few moments.
Environment, in the sense of social influence actually at work, is far
from the definite and obvious thing it is often assumed to be. Our real
environment consists of those images which are most present to our
thoughts, and in the case of a vigorous, growing mind, these are likely
to be something quite different from what is most present to the senses.
The group to which we give allegiance, and to whose standards we try to
conform, is determined by our own selective affinity, choosing among all
the personal influences accessible to us; and so far as we select with
any independence of our palpable companions, we have the appearance of
non-conformity.
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