Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
As was suggested above, the morality of mere rule and habit becomes the
less conspicuous in the life of children the more they are subjected to
fresh personal influences. If their sympathies are somewhat dull, or if
they are secluded, their minds naturally become grooved; and all
children, perhaps, become much bound to habit in matters where personal
influence is not likely to interfere. But in most children, and in most
matters, it will be found that the moral judgment and feeling are, from
the very earliest, intensely sympathetic and personal, charged with
shame, affection, anger, jealousy, and desire to please. The mind has
already to struggle for harmony among vivid emotions, aroused by the
appeals of life to hereditary instinct, each giving intensity to certain
ideas of conduct, and tending to sway the judgment of right in their
sense.
If the boy who refused the candy, as mentioned above, had possessed a
vivid imagination of personal attitudes, which he did not, his situation
might have been much more intricate. He might have been drawn to accept
it not only by the sweet taste but by a desire to please the friends who
offered it; and on the other hand he might have been deterred by a
vision of the reproving face and voice of his mother. Thus M., nearly
sixteen months old, had been frowned at and called naughty in a severe
tone of voice when she tried to claw her brother’s face. Shortly after,
while sitting with him on the bed, her mother being at a distance, she
was observed to repeat the offence and then, without further cause or
suggestion, to bow her head and look abashed and guilty. Apparently she
had a sense of wrong, a conviction of sin, perhaps consisting only in a
reminiscence of the shame she had previously felt when similar behavior
was followed by rebuke.
Here, then, we have a simple manifestation of a moral force that acts
upon every one of us in countless ways, and every day of his life—the
imagined approval or disapproval of others, appealing to instinctive
emotion, and giving the force of that emotion to certain views of
conduct. The behavior that connects itself with such social sentiment as
we like and feel the impulse to continue, is so much the more likely to
be judged as right; but if the sentiment is one from which we are
averse, the behavior is the more likely to be judged as wrong. The
child’s moral sense, says Perez, “begins as soon as he understands the
signification of certain intonations of the voice, of certain attitudes,
of a certain expression of countenance, intended to reprimand him for
what he has done or to warn him against something he was on the point of
doing. This penal and remunerative sanction gives rise by degrees to a
clear distinction of concrete good and evil.”[99]
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