Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
The content of it, the matter communicated, is chiefly thought and
sentiment, in distinction from mere sensation or crude emotion. I do not
venture to say that these latter cannot be shared, but certainly they
play a relatively small part in the communicative life. Thus although to
get one’s finger pinched is a common experience, it is impossible, to me
at least, to recall the sensation when another person has his finger
pinched. So when we say that we feel sympathy for a person who has a
headache, we mean that we pity him, not that we share the headache.
There is little true communication of physical pain, or anything of that
simple sort. The reason appears to be that as ideas of this kind are due
to mere physical contacts, or other simple stimuli, in the first
instance, they are and remain detached and isolated in the mind, so that
they are unlikely to be recalled except by some sensation of the sort
originally associated with them. If they become objects of thought and
conversation, as is likely to be the case when they are agreeable, they
are by that very process refined into sentiments. Thus when the
pleasures of the table are discussed the thing communicated is hardly
the sensation of taste but something much subtler, although partly based
upon that. Thought and sentiment are from the first parts or aspects of
highly complex and imaginative personal ideas, and of course may be
reached by anything which recalls any part of those ideas. They are
aroused by personal intercourse because in their origin they are
connected with personal symbols. The sharing of a sentiment ordinarily
comes to pass by our perceiving one of these symbols or traits of
expression which has belonged with the sentiment in the past and now
brings it back. And likewise with thought: it is communicated by words,
and these are freighted with the net result of centuries of intercourse.
Both spring from the general life of society and cannot be separated
from that life, nor it from them.
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