Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
Sympathy is a requisite to social power. Only in so far as a man
understands other people and thus enters into the life around him has he
any effective existence; the less he has of this the more he is a mere
animal, not truly in contact with human life. And if he is not in
contact with it he can of course have no power over it. This is a
principle of familiar application, and yet one that is often overlooked,
practical men having, perhaps, a better grasp of it than theorists. It
is well understood by men of the world that effectiveness depends at
least as much upon address, _savoir faire_, tact, and the like,
involving sympathetic insight into the minds of other people, as upon
any more particular faculties. There is nothing more practical than
social imagination; to lack it is to lack everything. All classes of
persons need it—the mechanic, the farmer, and the tradesman, as well as
the lawyer, the clergyman, the railway president, the politician, the
philanthropist, and the poet. Every year thousands of young men are
preferred to other thousands and given positions of more responsibility
largely because they are seen to have a power of personal insight which
promises efficiency and growth. Without “calibre,” which means chiefly a
good imagination, there is no getting on much in the world. The strong
men of our society, however much we may disapprove of the particular
direction in which their sympathy is sometimes developed, or the ends
their power is made to serve, are very human men, not at all the
abnormal creatures they are sometimes asserted to be. I have met a fair
number of such men, and they have generally appeared, each in his own
way, to be persons of a certain scope and breadth that marked them off
from the majority.
A person of definite character and purpose, who comprehends our way of
thought, is sure to exert power over us. He cannot altogether be
resisted; because, if he understands us, he can make us understand him,
through the word, the look, or other symbol, which both of us connect
with the common sentiment or idea; and thus by communicating an impulse
he can move the will. Sympathetic influence enters into our system of
thought as a matter of course, and affects our conduct as surely as
water affects the growth of a plant. The kindred spirit can turn on a
system of lights, to recur to the image of the last chapter, and so
transform the mental illumination. This is the nature of all authority
and leadership, as I shall try to explain more fully in another chapter.
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