Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
The different degrees of urgency in personal impressions are reflected
in the behavior of different classes of people. Everyone must have
noticed that he finds more real openness of sympathy in the country than
in the city—though perhaps there is more of a superficial readiness in
the latter—and often more among plain, hand-working people than among
professional and business men. The main reason for this, I take it, is
that the social imagination is not so hard worked in the one case as in
the other. In the mountains of North Carolina the hospitable inhabitants
will take in any stranger and invite him to spend the night; but this is
hardly possible upon Broadway; and the case is very much the same with
the hospitality of the mind. If one sees few people and hears a new
thing only once a week, he accumulates a fund of sociability and
curiosity very favorable to eager intercourse; but if he is assailed all
day and every day by calls upon feeling and thought in excess of his
power to respond, he soon finds that he must put up some sort of a
barrier. Sensitive people who live where life is insistent take on a
sort of social shell whose function is to deal mechanically with
ordinary relations and preserve the interior from destruction. They are
likely to acquire a conventional smile and conventional phrases for
polite intercourse, and a cold mask for curiosity, hostility, or
solicitation. In fact, a vigorous power of resistance to the numerous
influences that in no way make for the substantial development of his
character, but rather tend to distract and demoralize him, is a primary
need of one who lives in the more active portions of present society,
and the loss of this power by strain is in countless instances the
beginning of mental and moral decline. There are times of abounding
energy when we exclaim with Schiller,
“Seid willkommen, Millionen,
Diesen Kuss der ganzen Welt!”
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