So, being authentic with the self, is not an acting out of a nonthought
through response or merely a doing of what one feels like doing. Rather
it is the very opposite of this. It is a thought through responsible
choosing of overt response based in knowledge and on nursing values. It
must correspond positively with one's belief that searching and sharing
in one's nursing world will promote both the nursed and the nurse to be
more. If it is merely a {58} peeking in on, an exploitation of the
other, for selfish learning purposes, it desecrates the very concept of
nursing. One has the broad human potential of feeling like doing many
things, all-at-once, that extend into all kinds of living. And this is
true in, as well as outside, a nurse world. In recollecting and
reflecting on perceptions and responses in all these extremes one
becomes freer to select from within one's self the values to be chosen,
actualized, and potentiated in one's nursing practice. Authenticity with
the self calls forth confrontation of the self with one's motivations
and alternatives. This permits a purposeful selection and an aware
actualized overt response based on one's nursing value criteria artfully
tailored to a particular situation.
I consider each nurse a scientific-artist: classical, modern, primitive,
cubic, or interpretive. My inference here is that we express artfully in
accordance with our uniqueness. Many nurses given the same data would
accomplish with the same or a similar degree of adequacy through use of
their particular distinct selves. Therefore, though the function called
for might be the same, each nurse would approach the function and the
patient differently. How one actualizes the result of thinking, and
being authentic with one's self recalls what Jung said about art.
"Art is a kind of innate drive that seizes a human being and
makes him its instrument. The artist is not a person endowed
with free will that seeks his own ends, but one who allows art
to realize its purpose through him. As a human being he may
have moods and a will and personal aims, but as an artist he is
"man" in a higher sense--he is "collective man"--one who
carries and shapes the unconscious, psychic life of
mankind."[2]
Through the years, over and over, I have met nurses so driven,
motivated, and expressive in their nursing worlds.
I called this section "authenticity with the self: for actualization of
nursing's potential." In it I have been trying to say, the more of
ourselves we are able to awarely include, the more of the other we can
be open to and with. A capacity for presence with others allows us to
share ourselves. Through this sharing others become more. They are able
to internalize us as "Thou." This happening occurs in the reverse, too,
and we become more.
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