In and About Drury Lane, and Other Papers, Vol. 2 (of 2): Reprinted from the pages of the 'Temple Bar' MagazineDoran, Dr. (John)
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In and About Drury Lane, and Other Papers, Vol. 2 (of 2): Reprinted from the pages of the 'Temple Bar' Magazine
Doran, Dr. (John)
London (England) -- Social life and customs -- 19th century; Theater -- England -- London -- Anecdotes
In the winter of 1800-1, I was breakfasting with Lord and Lady
Nelson at their lodgings in Arlington Street, and a cheerful
conversation was passing on indifferent subjects when Lord
Nelson spoke of something which had been done or said by ‘dear
Lady Hamilton,’ upon which Lady Nelson rose from her chair and
exclaimed, with much vehemence--‘I am sick of hearing of dear
Lady Hamilton, and am resolved that you shall give up either her
or me.’ Lord Nelson, with perfect calmness, said--‘Take care,
Fanny, what you say; I love you sincerely, but I cannot forget my
obligations to Lady Hamilton, or speak of her otherwise than with
affection and admiration.’ Without one soothing word or gesture,
but muttering something about her mind being made up, Lady Nelson
left the room, and, shortly after, drove from the house. They
never lived together afterwards. I believe that Lord Nelson took
a formal leave of her ladyship before joining the fleet under Sir
Hyde Parker.
Dr. Pettigrew cites this letter of Mr. Haslewood to show that the
separation was unavoidable on Lord Nelson’s part: it appears to us
to have been inevitable and necessary. Perhaps the strangest part of
this incident is that Nelson’s family closely attached themselves
to Lady Hamilton. We must make exception, however, of the still
stranger incident--namely, the birth of Lady Hamilton’s daughter at
her residence in Piccadilly, the absence of all attempt to confer the
honours of paternity on Sir William, and the consequent mystification.
The birth took place about the last day of January 1801. The child was
conveyed to a nurse about a week or ten days afterwards, and was not
the home companion of its guilty parents until 1803, after the death
of Sir William Hamilton. Nelson’s daughter was recently alive, and was
formerly married to Captain Ward, late of the 81st regiment.
Before the death of Sir William Hamilton, Lord Nelson had made his
house their common residence. At the death of the former, he, with
something of an affected decency, quitted it for private lodgings. Sir
William left his widow totally unprovided for. He thought, as Nelson
thought, that the Government would not hesitate to make her an ample
provision for her services. In the meantime, waiting for an event that
was never to occur, Lord Nelson purchased Merton. It is yet the object
of many a sailor’s pilgrimage, and is about ten minutes’ walk from the
Wimbledon station. Here he offered the deserted widow and the mother of
his child a refuge--nay, more, a home. It was such to her; for there
she enjoyed the homage and respect not only of every member of Nelson’s
family, but also of the great and good of the exterior world. Never was
woman placed in so anomalous a condition, in which the anomaly was so
carefully concealed from herself and unheeded by the world.
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