In and About Drury Lane, and Other Papers, Vol. 2 (of 2): Reprinted from the pages of the 'Temple Bar' MagazineDoran, Dr. (John)
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In and About Drury Lane, and Other Papers, Vol. 2 (of 2): Reprinted from the pages of the 'Temple Bar' Magazine
Doran, Dr. (John)
London (England) -- Social life and customs -- 19th century; Theater -- England -- London -- Anecdotes
of herself: ‘I was a prude when young, and remarkably grave. It was
owing to a consciousness that I could not pass unobserved, and a fear
of giving offence or incurring censure. I loved dancing extremely,
because I danced well.’ She loved it to the end of her days, and would
dance with men whose grandfathers had been her partners in days of
yore. Mrs. Cockburn also preferred men’s society to that of women. A
company without a clever man in it was to her worse than no company
at all. The sterling stuff that was in her is to be seen in what she
curiously says of the early years of her marriage with young Cockburn,
son of the Lord Justice Clerk: ‘I was married, properly speaking, to
a man of seventy-five, my father-in-law. I lived with him four years,
and as the ambition had seized me to make him fond of me, knowing
also that nothing could please his son so much, I bestowed all my
time and trouble to gain his approbation.’ Of her husband she wrote,
three-and-thirty years after she had become a widow: ‘I was twenty
years united to a lover and a friend.’ Perhaps it was the happiness
of her own married life that gave her a decided partiality for making
matches. ‘She was the _confidante_,’ her biographers remark, ‘of all
lovesick hearts.’ When speaking of a widow ‘being consoled by one who
had been longer in that state,’ Mrs. Cockburn contemptuously asked,
‘What’s a woman to a woman?’ That any woman should prefer a single
to a married life was a fact she could not account for. ‘The girls
are all set agog,’ she writes, ‘in seeking the ideal man, and will
have none of God’s corrupted creatures.... Even as a good housewife
I would choose my lord and master should have many faults, because
there’s so much glory in mending them. One is prouder of darning an old
table-cloth than of sewing a new one.’ The sentiment is happier than
the simile. To the next sentiment universal mankind would say a loud
Amen: ‘It’s a pity woman does not mend with age as wine does.’ There
was a rough side to female Scottish character in those days. Among the
friends of Mrs. Cockburn, when she was queen of Edinburgh society,
was a Miss Suff Johnstone. She is thus sketched in ‘The Songstresses
of Scotland,’ of whom Miss Suff was not one: ‘Miss Suff, before
women’s rights were mooted, took the law into her own hand, and wore a
man’s greatcoat, hat, and square-buckled shoes, practising, with the
habiliments, a man’s habit of striding, spitting, and swearing. She
shod a horse better than a smith, had a private forge in her bedroom,
played on a fiddle, and sang a man’s song in a man’s bass voice.’
Gentle Anne Scott’s foot happening to tread upon the space appropriated
by the Amazon, Anne was punished by a rough kick on the shins, and the
fierce challenge, ‘What are ye wab-wabstering there for?’ The innocent
offender was overwhelmed, and the rest of the party electrified. A
contemporary of Mrs. Cockburn, Miss Jean Elliot, whose life ran between
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