In the land of the lion and sun, or, modern Persia : $b Being experiences of life in Persia from 1866 to 1881Wills, C. J. (Charles James)
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In the land of the lion and sun, or, modern Persia : $b Being experiences of life in Persia from 1866 to 1881
Wills, C. J. (Charles James)
Iran -- Description and travel; Wills, C. J. (Charles James), 1842-1912 -- Travel -- Iran
The outdoor costume of the Persian women is quite another thing;
enveloped in a huge blue sheet, with a yard of linen as a veil,
perforated for two inches square with minute holes, the feet thrust into
two huge bags of coloured stuff, a wife is perfectly unrecognisable, even
by her husband, when out of doors. The dress of all is the same; save in
quality or costliness, the effect is similar. And yet with such a hideous
disguise, a Persian coquette will manage to let the curious know if she
have a good face and eye, by lifting her veil in a sly and half-timid
way. The only thing I know exceeding in folly the chimney-pot hat, is
the outdoor dress of the Persian woman. Expensive, ugly, uncomfortable,
hot in summer, cold in winter, words fail to express its numerous
disadvantages; it has one positive quality—as a disguise it is perfect,
and its use favours the intrigues rife in the country.
As for the children, they are always when infants swaddled: when they
can walk they are dressed as little men and women, and with the dress
they often, nay generally, ape the manners; a Persian child of the upper
class being a master of etiquette, an adept at flattery, and a mirror
of politeness. It is a strange custom with the Persian ladies to dress
little girls as boys, and little boys as girls, till they reach seven
or eight years; this is often done for fun, or on account of some vow,
oftener to avert the evil eye.
Persian women are very fond of their children, and pet them greatly. The
love of the Persian for his mother is very great; he never leaves her to
starve, and her wishes are laws to him, even when he is an old man, and
she an aged crone. The mother is always the most important member of the
household, and the grandmother is treated with veneration. Mothers-in-law
are not laughed at or looked down on in Persia; their presence is coveted
by their sons-in-law, who look on them as the guardians of the virtue of
their wives. The uncle, too, is a much nearer tie than with us, that is
to say, the paternal uncle: while men look on their first cousins on the
father’s side as their most natural wives. Possibly this is because their
female cousins are the only women they have any opportunity of knowing
anything of personally. Black slaves and men-nurses, or “lallahs,” are
much respected and generally retained in a household, while the “dyah,”
or wet nurse, is looked on as a second mother, and usually provided for
for life.
Persians are very kind to their servants, and try to make their people
look on them as second fathers; a master will be often addressed by a
servant as his father, and the servant will protect his master’s property
as he would his own, or even more jealously.
A servant is invariably spoken to as “_butcha_” (_child_). The servants
expect that their master will always take their part, and never allow
them to be wronged; if he does not do so, he cannot obtain a good class
domestic, while if he sticks to the man, he never leaves him.
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