One of the advantages or disadvantages of the way in which we live in
these modern days is that we are ceasing to feel. That is to say we do
not permit ourselves to be affected by either death or misfortune,
provided these natural calamities leave our own persons unscathed. We
are beginning not to understand emotion except as a phase of bad
manners, and we cultivate an apathetic, soulless indifference to events
of great moment whether triumphant or tragic, whenever they do not
involve our own well-being and creature comforts. Whole boatloads of
fishermen may go forth to their doom in the teeth of a gale without
moving us to pity so long as we have our well-fried sole or grilled cod
for breakfast,--and even such appalling disasters as the wicked
assassination of hapless monarchs, or the wrecks of palatial
ocean-liners with more than a thousand human beings all whelmed at once
in the pitiless depths of the sea, leave us cold, save for the
uplifting of our eyes and shoulders during an hour or so,--an
expression of slight shock, followed by forgetfulness. Air-men,
recklessly braving the spaces of the sky, fall headlong, and are
smashed to mutilated atoms every month or so, without rousing us to
more than a passing comment, and a chorus of "How dreadful!" from
simpering women,--and the greatest and best man alive cannot hope for
long remembrance by the world at large when he dies. Shakespeare
recognised this tendency in callous human nature when he made his
Hamlet say--
"O heavens! Die two months ago and not forgotten yet? Then there's hope
a great man's memory may outlive his life half a year, but by 'r lady,
he must build churches then, or else shall he suffer not thinking on."
Wives recover the loss of their husbands with amazing
rapidity,--husbands "get over" the demise of their wives with the
galloping ease of trained hunters leaping an accustomed fence--families
forget their dead as resolutely as some debtors forget their
bills,--and to express sorrow, pity, tenderness, affection, or any sort
of "sentiment" whatever is to expose one's self to derision and
contempt from the "normal" modernist who cultivates cynicism as a fine
art. Many of us elect to live, each one, in a little back-yard garden
of selfish interests--walled round carefully, and guarded against
possible intrusion by uplifted spikes of conventionalism,--the door is
kept jealously closed--and only now and then does some impulsive spirit
bolder than the rest, venture to put up a ladder and peep over the
wall. Shut in with various favourite forms of hypocrisy and cowardice,
each little unit passes its short life in mistrusting its neighbour
unit, and death finds none of them wiser, better or nearer the utmost
good than when they were first uselessly born.
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