“No word is oftener on the lips of men than Friendship, and
indeed no thought is more familiar to their aspirations. All men
are dreaming of it, and its drama, which is always a tragedy, is
enacted daily. It is the secret of the universe. You may thread
the town, you may wander the country, and none shall ever speak
of it, yet thought is everywhere busy about it, and the idea of
what is possible in this respect affects our behaviour towards
all new men and women, and a great many old ones. Nevertheless
I can remember only two or three essays on this subject in all
literature.... To say that a man is your friend, means commonly
no more than this, that he is not your enemy. Most contemplate
only what would be the accidental and trifling advantages of
friendship, as that the friend can assist in time of need, by his
substance, or his influence, or his counsel; but he who foresees
such advantages in this relation proves himself blind to its
real advantage, or indeed wholly inexperienced in the relation
itself.... What is commonly called Friendship is only a little
more honour among rogues. But sometimes we are said to _love_
another, that is, to stand in a true relation to him, so that we
give the best to, and receive the best from, him. Between whom
there is hearty truth there is love; and in proportion to our
truthfulness and confidence in one another our lives are divine
and miraculous, and answer to our ideal. There are passages of
affection in our intercourse with mortal men and women, such as
no prophecy had taught us to expect, which transcend our earthly
life, and anticipate heaven for us.” _From On the Concord River._
[Sidenote: _Walt Whitman_]
I conclude this collection with a few quotations from Whitman, for whom
“the love of comrades” perhaps stands as the most intimate part of his
message to the world—“Here the frailest leaves of me and yet my strongest
lasting.” Whitman, by his great power, originality and initiative,
as well as by his deep insight and wide vision, is in many ways the
inaugurator of a new era to mankind; and it is especially interesting to
find that this idea of comradeship, and of its establishment as a _social
institution_, plays so important a part with him. We have seen that in
the Greek age, and more or less generally in the ancient and pagan world,
comradeship was an institution; we have seen that in Christian and modern
times, though existent, it was socially denied and ignored, and indeed
to a great extent fell under a kind of ban; and now Whitman’s attitude
towards it suggests to us that it really is destined to pass into its
third stage, to arise again, and become a recognised factor of modern
life, and even in a more extended and perfect form than at first.[9]
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