Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
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Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
By remarks such as these, it will be probably said by those whose
professions have been of a higher character than their lives, I but
lower the standard, and nature, and objects of marriage. I would not
intentionally or willingly do so. But that it may be seen that I have
reasoned only in accordance with the fact, I shall draw once more
from that unchallenged authority, who was to myself, while a student,
the same teacher I would fain make him to be for my fellow-men. His
voice now comes to us from the grave; it is none the less earnest or
impressive for this. “It is easier,” says Dr. Ware, “to show that a
remedy is needed than to discover and apply it. In this case, indeed,
we encounter the most difficult question presented to us in the moral
education of our race. At the early age at which the evil begins to
exist, when it is gradually creeping into the thoughts and habits of
the child, how are we to detect and counteract it? In the present
state of the relations between the old and the young, between parents
and children, this is a task of extreme delicacy. It can only be done
by the judicious observation and management of the associations, the
conversation, the intercourse, the amusements, and the habits of
children from their earliest days, both in families and in schools.
But alas! how few parents, how few instructors, have the knowledge,
the discretion, the tact, the judgment, to qualify them for such an
office! How often must those who are fully aware of their duty shrink
from its performance, from the apprehension that they may suggest,
instead of preventing, the evil they fear!
“At a later period of life, the attempt to counteract the tendency
to sensual indulgence is also encompassed with great difficulties,
though there is less embarrassment as to the exact means which are
to be put in force to accomplish the object. At this age, we are
to depend not so much upon the watchful care of others as upon the
establishment in the mind of the young man himself of a principle of
resistance founded upon reason and conscience. We can often succeed
in doing this, and although, where the mind and body have both been
debauched by early training, the mind filled with impure images,
and the body stimulated by unnatural gratification, the struggle is
painful and often protracted, yet it is frequently effectual.
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