'Read again, for the third time at least, Miss Austen's finely written novel of _Pride and Prejudice_. That young lady has a talent for describing the involvements and feelings and characters of ordinary life, which is to me the most wonderful I ever met with. The big Bow-Wow strain I can do myself like any now going; but the exquisite touch which renders ordinary commonplace things and characters interesting from the truth of the description and the sentiment is denied to me. What a pity such a gifted creature died so early!' [314] No division or bitterness seems to have been caused in the family by these events: a remarkable proof of the strong affection which united them. [315] _Memoir_, p. 130. [316] _Memoir_, p. 157. [317] Mr. Gifford. [318] Fanny Knight. [319] Mary Cooke. [320] Fanny Knight. [321] Mary Cooke. [322] Mr. Clarke. [323] Mr. Sherer. [324] Mary Cooke. [325] Many critics. [326] Mary Cooke. [327] Fanny Knight. [328] Mrs. Pearse of Chilton Lodge. [329] Fanny Knight. [330] Mrs. Craven. [331] Mr. H. Sanford. CHAPTER XIX AUNT JANE 1814-1817 Any attempt at depicting the charm and attractiveness of Jane Austen's character must be quite incomplete if it fails to take into account the special manner in which she showed these qualities as an aunt. She herself says in joke to a young niece that she had always maintained the importance of aunts; and she evidently felt, in all seriousness, the responsibility of that relationship, though she would have been one of the last to display her sense of it by any didactic or authoritative utterance. The author of the _Memoir_ tells us that her two nieces who were grown up in her lifetime could say how valuable to them had been her advice in 'the little difficulties and doubts of early womanhood'; and Lord Brabourne quotes here and there extracts from his mother's diary, such as these: 'Aunt Jane and I had a very interesting conversation'; 'Aunt Jane and I had a delicious morning together'; 'Aunt Jane and I very snug'; and so on, until the sad ending: 'I had the misery of losing my dear Aunt Jane after a lingering illness.' Some letters of hers to three of her nieces give a good idea of her value and importance to them, whether as grown women or as children.[332] Fanny Knight, sensible as she was, and early accustomed to responsibility, felt at a loss how to distinguish in her own mind between inclination and love when seriously courted in 1814 by a man of unexceptionable position and character. A reference to her aunt brought her two delightful letters.[333] No definite opinion was expressed or formal advice given in these letters, but they must have helped her by their sympathy, and cleared her mind by the steadiness with which they contemplated the case in all its bearings. Chawton: Friday [November 18, 1814].