Jewels and the woman: The romance, magic and art of feminine adornmentOstier, Marianne
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Jewels and the woman: The romance, magic and art of feminine adornment
Ostier, Marianne
Jewelry
The basic significance of the ring remains, however, twofold. The first
meaning is symbolical. Being endless, the ring betokens the love without
end that is the hope of the betrothal and the realization of two lives
long spent “as one.” The second meaning was practical. The marriage ring
was the man’s signet ring, which was as universally obeyed as his direct
order, for the stamp of that seal was as the thunder of his command.
By placing this ring on the bride’s finger, he was conferring upon her
equal authority in the household and home—literally carrying out what
he declared in the wedding service: “With all my worldly goods I thee
endow.” It is not subordination but everlasting equality in mutual
respect and love that is held in the magic circle of the wedding band.
_The Wearing of the Band_
Two rings should not be worn at the same time on the same hand, except
the wedding ring, which in due time comes to slide along the same finger
as the engagement ring to mark the fulfilment of the first ring’s
promise. As they are to be boon companions for a long, long time, the
wedding ring should be of the same metal as the engagement ring. The wide
wedding band, though almost universal at the beginning of this century
and returning to popularity, has certain disadvantages. It looks becoming
only on a large hand. Even there it may make the engagement ring look too
small.
In more than the size and the metal, the engagement ring’s style should
be considered in the purchase of the wedding band. A neutral pattern is
simplest to match. It might be an unadorned band of metal or a simple
ring of small round, baguette or marquise diamonds, or two of these cuts
alternating, set close to the metal. Alternating marquise and round
diamonds may form a sort of crown design and a most attractive jewel.
There is a great variety of possible patterns and styles among which one
should select carefully, for this is the choice of a lifetime.
In measuring the size of the wedding band, care should be taken not to
make it too snug. Even if one be fortunate enough not to add weight with
the years, the size of the fingers changes with the seasons. They swell a
little in hot weather, and if the band is too tight the finger will bulge
on either side. It is better to fit the ring for the July finger, and in
December, if necessary, wear an unobtrusive and attractive guard.
_The Pearl Ring_
After the diamond ring in beauty and popularity, and freer from any
intimate symbolism, is the pearl ring. The pearl ring is appropriate
throughout the day for many occasions. It will harmonize with most
colors, once it has been carefully chosen—as I indicated when discussing
the pearl necklace—to harmonize with the wearer’s complexion. In fact, a
pearl necklace and a pearl ring may make a beautiful combination.
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