Leaves from the Note-Books of Lady Dorothy NevillNevill, Dorothy, Lady
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Leaves from the Note-Books of Lady Dorothy Nevill
Nevill, Dorothy, Lady
Great Britain -- Social life and customs -- 19th century; Great Britain -- Social life and customs -- 20th century
In another chapter I have spoken of the great changes which have taken
place in the constitution of what is known as “Society,” but since I
first knew it there is one respect in which there has in reality been no
alteration at all—I refer to its love of amusement and pleasure. True
it is, perhaps, that in past days these were indulged in with a certain
reserve and dignity—qualities which to-day seem to be considered as
being of small account. True it is also that seldom did the passing
fancies and follies of its leaders find their way into the public Press.
Nevertheless they existed, though perhaps in a more modified form than
to-day, when publicity is too often welcomed rather than shunned.
Society, which is after all but a collection of quite ordinary
individuals—many with more money than brains,—naturally contains (as
it always has done) a certain number of people whose wealth prompts them
to gratify many a costly caprice. There is nothing very astonishing
about this, nor is it likely that any effect will be produced by the
fulminations of those critics whose ideal society would appear to
consist of a collection of prigs, faddists, and cranks, perpetually
interfering in other people’s business as well as lecturing and boring
the world in general. In all probability London society is no better or
worse than it was in the past, though certainly more stupid. Clever
people seem rarer than in former days, whilst an undue importance is
attached to wealth, no matter how uninteresting may be its possessor.
Nevertheless, considering all things, society might be a great deal
worse, and it certainly does not deserve the indiscriminate censure
which is frequently passed upon it, there being, after all, a large
measure of real kindliness and generous feeling to be found hidden
beneath its veneer of frivolity. Society, however, is always an easy and
attractive subject for attack, the British public being apparently never
tired of hearing of its crimes. Sometimes it is blamed for the vast sums
expended in entertaining, which, after all, circulates money and is good
for trade; nor is it clear why people in a position to do so should not
entertain their friends, or even their enemies for that matter. By the
austere it is upbraided for its bridge playing, and here, perhaps, is a
more legitimate reason for censure, the game in question (which I do not
play, disliking all card games) having utterly destroyed much pleasant
conversation. At the same time it seems to amuse a great number who
would otherwise be bored, and many people welcome the game as a pleasant
change from the exchange of empty and commonplace remarks.
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