Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a LadyChapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Religion
Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a Lady
Chapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Women -- Education; Young women -- Conduct of life
Though I wish the principle of duty towards God to be your ruling motive
in the exercise of every virtue, yet, as human nature stands in need of
all possible helps, let us not forget how essential it is to present
happiness, and to the enjoyment of this life, to cultivate such a temper
as is likewise indispensably requisite to the attainment of higher
felicity in the life to come. The greatest outward blessings cannot
afford enjoyment to a mind ruffled and uneasy within itself. A fit of
ill-humour will spoil the finest entertainment, and is as real a torment
as the most painful disease. Another unavoidable consequence of
ill-temper is the dislike and aversion of all who are witnesses to it,
and, perhaps, the deep and lasting resentment of those who suffer from
its effects. We all, from social or self-love, earnestly desire the
esteem and affection of our fellow-creatures; and indeed our condition
makes them so necessary to us, that the wretch who has forfeited them,
must feel desolate and undone, deprived of all the best enjoyments and
comforts the world can afford, and given up to his inward misery,
unpitied and scorned. But this can never be the fate of a good-natured
person: whatever faults he may have, they will generally be treated with
lenity; he will find an advocate in every human heart; his errors will
be lamented rather than abhorred; and his virtues will be viewed in the
fairest point of light. His good humour, without the help of great
talents or acquirements, will make his company preferable to that of the
most brilliant genius, in whom this quality is wanting; in short, it is
almost impossible that you can be sincerely beloved by any body, without
this engaging property, whatever other excellencies you may possess;
but, with it, you will scarcely fail of finding some friends and
favourers, even though you should be destitute of almost every other
advantage.
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