Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a LadyChapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Religion
Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a Lady
Chapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Women -- Education; Young women -- Conduct of life
In your table, as in your dress, and in all other things, I wish you to
aim at _propriety_ and _neatness_, or, if your state demands it,
_elegance_, rather than _superfluous figure_. To go beyond your sphere,
either in dress or in the appearance of your table, indicates a greater
fault in your character than to be too much within it. It is impossible
to enter into the _minutiae_ of the table; good sense and observation on
the best models must form your taste, and a due regard to what you can
afford must restrain it.
Ladies, who are fond of needle-work, generally choose to consider that
as a principal part of good housewifery: and though I cannot look upon
it as of equal importance with the due regulation of a family, yet, in a
middling rank, and with a moderate fortune, it is a necessary part of a
woman's duty, and a considerable article in expense is saved by it. Many
young ladies make almost _every thing_ they wear; by which means they
can make a genteel figure at a small expense. This, in your station, is
the most profitable and desirable kind of work; and, as much of it as
you can do, consistently with a due attention to your health, to the
improvement of your mind, and to the discharge of other duties, I should
think highly commendable. But, as I do not wish you to impose upon the
world by your appearance, I should be contented to see you worse
dressed, rather than see your whole time employed in preparations for
it, or any of those hours given to it, which are needful to make your
body strong and active by exercise, or your mind rational by reading.
Absolute idleness is inexcusable in a woman, because the needle is
always at hand for those intervals in which she cannot be otherwise
employed. If you are industrious, and if you keep good hours, you will
find time for all your proper employments. Early rising, and a good
disposition of time, is essential to Economy. The necessary orders, and
examinations into household affairs, should be dispatched as soon in the
day and as privately as possible, that they may not interrupt your
husband or guests, or break in upon conversation, or reading, in the
remainder of the day. If you defer any thing that is necessary, you may
be tempted by company, or by unforeseen avocations, to forget or to
neglect it: hurry and irregularity will ensue, with expensive expedients
to supply the defect.
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