Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a LadyChapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Religion
Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a Lady
Chapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Women -- Education; Young women -- Conduct of life
I am sensible, my dear child, that very little more can be gathered from
what I have said on Economy, than the general importance of it, which
cannot be too much impressed on your mind, since the natural turn of
young people is to neglect and even to despise it; not distinguishing
it from parsimony and narrowness of spirit. But, be assured, my dear,
there can be no true generosity without it; and that the most enlarged
and liberal mind will find itself not debased but ennobled by it.
Nothing is more common than to see the same person, whose want of
Economy is ruining his family, consumed with regret and vexation at the
effect of his profusion; and, by endeavouring to save, in such trifles
as will not amount to twenty pounds in a year, that which he wastes by
hundreds, incur the character and suffer the anxieties of a miser,
together with the misfortunes of a prodigal. A rational plan of expense
will save you from all these corroding cares, and will give you the full
and liberal enjoyment of what you spend. An air of ease, of hospitality,
and frankness, will reign in your house, which will make it pleasant to
your friends and to yourself. "Better is a morsel of bread," where this
is found, than the most elaborate entertainment, with that air of
constraint and anxiety, which often betrays the grudging heart through
all the disguises of civility.
That you, my dear, may unite in yourself the admirable virtues of
Generosity and Economy, which will be the grace and crown of all your
attainments, is the earnest wish of
Your ever affectionate.
FOOTNOTES:
[26] Ecclus. xx. 16.
[27] Ecclus. xviii.
LETTER VIII.
ON POLITENESS AND ACCOMPLISHMENTS.
WHILST you labour to enrich your mind with the essential virtues of
Christianity--with piety, benevolence, meekness, humility, integrity,
and purity--and to make yourself useful in domestic management, I would
not have my dear child neglect to pursue those graces and acquirements,
which may set her virtue in the most advantageous light, adorn her
manners, and enlarge her understanding: and this, not in the spirit of
vanity, but in the innocent and laudable view of rendering herself more
useful and pleasing to her fellow-creatures, and consequently more
acceptable to God. Politeness of behaviour, and the attainment of such
branches of knowledge and such arts and accomplishments as are proper to
your sex, capacity, and station, will prove so valuable to yourself
through life, and will make you so desirable a companion, that the
neglect of them may reasonably be deemed a neglect of duty; since it is
undoubtedly our duty to cultivate the powers entrusted to us, and to
render ourselves as perfect as we can.
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