Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a LadyChapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Religion
Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a Lady
Chapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Women -- Education; Young women -- Conduct of life
be intended: let them be your first confidants, and let every part of
your conduct, in such a case, be particularly directed by them.
With regard to accomplishments, the chief of these is a competent share
of reading, well chosen and properly regulated; and of this I shall
speak more largely hereafter. Dancing and the knowledge of the French
tongue are now so universal, that they cannot be dispensed with in the
education of a gentlewoman; and indeed they both are useful as well as
ornamental; the first, by forming and strengthening the body, and
improving the carriage; the second, by opening a large field of
entertainment and improvement for the mind. I believe there are more
agreeable books of female literature in French than in any other
language; and, as they are not less commonly talked of than English
books, you must often feel mortified in company, if you are too ignorant
to read them. Italian would be easily learnt after French, and, if you
have leisure and opportunity, may be worth your gaining, though in your
station of life it is by no means necessary.
To write a free and legible hand, and to understand common arithmetic,
are indispensable requisites.
As to music and drawing, I would only wish you to follow as Genius
leads: you have some turn for the first, and I should be sorry to see
you neglect a talent, which will at least afford you an innocent
amusement, though it should not enable you to give much pleasure to your
friends. I think the use of both these arts is more for yourself than
for others: it is but seldom that a private person has leisure or
application enough to gain any high degree of excellence in them; and
your own partial family are perhaps the only persons who would not much
rather be entertained by the performance of a professor than by your's:
but, with regard to yourself, it is of great consequence to have the
power of filling up agreeably those intervals of time, which too often
hang heavily on the hands of a woman, if her lot be cast in a retired
situation. Besides this, it is certain that even a small share of
knowledge in these arts will heighten your pleasure in the performances
of others: the taste must be improved before it can be susceptible of an
exquisite relish for any of the imitative arts: an unskilful ear is
seldom capable of comprehending _harmony_, or of distinguishing the most
_delicate_ charms of _melody_. The pleasure of seeing fine paintings, or
even of contemplating the beauties of Nature, must be greatly heightened
by our being conversant with the rules of drawing, and by the habit of
considering the most picturesque objects. As I look upon taste to be an
inestimable fund of innocent delight, I wish you to lose no opportunity
of improving it, and of cultivating in yourself the relish of such
pleasures as will not interfere with a rational scheme of life, nor lead
you into dissipation, with all its attendant evils of vanity and luxury.
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