Life and religion of the Hindoos. : $b With a sketch of my life and experience.Gangooly, Joguth Chunder
Religion
Life and religion of the Hindoos. : $b With a sketch of my life and experience.
Gangooly, Joguth Chunder
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs
Now about the necessary preparations for the wedding. Nothing is to
be more cared for than a good, faithful goldsmith, who is to make
ornaments of various shapes and sizes. Three days before the marriage,
both the bride and the bridegroom are anointed and bathed in their
respective homes, by a dozen married women. The widows are entirely
excluded from this and other ceremonies pertaining to the wedding. I
have before observed, that the women cannot associate with men, and the
question would naturally suggest itself, Do the married women anoint
and bathe both bride and bridegroom? I will here be more distinct in
portraying the scenes, for they are all new and different from those of
my Christian friends. The women are for the most part elderly persons,
and composed of sisters, aunts, and the like. This exception is made on
an occasion like this. The bride and bridegroom are requested to keep a
_jathee_, scissors, with them until the marriage ceremony is over.
The relatives and other friends send valuable gifts, and entertain them
in their houses. This mode of entertainment is called “the bachelor and
maiden feasts.” The evening previous to the wedding is celebrated the
feast of “joy cakes.” These cakes are made of cocoa-nuts, sugar, and
rice-powder, and are cooked with much ceremony. When the raw rice is
washed, they sound the sacred shells, trumpets, flutes, cymbals, &c.
As the couple will be joined in a fixed moment in the evening, the
friends are very careful to reach the bride’s house before that time.
When the bridegroom starts he dresses in red silken cloth, wears a hat
made of cord and other glittering, fanciful material; then his mother,
or in her absence, aunt, comes near him, and inquires, “Child,--where
are you going?” “To bring you a female servant, mother,” he replies.
If he be the son of a rich man, hundreds of persons go with him. The
bands, both native and English, play before him all the way. Some young
boys, a hundred or more, dress in uniform; walk with colored flags in
their hands; the hired dancing-girls dance on the platform, carried by
men on their shoulders. Various fancy things, such as hills, houses,
halls, and churches, made of bamboo sticks, beautifully covered with
paint and gilded paper, are displayed,--fireworks of various sorts
are burned,--streets leading to the bride’s house are splendidly
illuminated. When the bridegroom reaches his place of destination,
he is received in an outer hall, accommodating hundreds. A party of
twelve young men come and demand some money, which they get from
every man who comes to marry in their place. This they dispose of at
the public worship. Some little boys come, also, in the name of the
“throwing stone party,” for some money, which they spend for a feast
or other amusements. The priests of the opposite parties enter into a
discussion of various topics, embracing mental philosophy, astronomy,
poetry, scriptures, &c., while the schoolboys do the same, questioning
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