Life and religion of the Hindoos. : $b With a sketch of my life and experience.Gangooly, Joguth Chunder
Religion
Life and religion of the Hindoos. : $b With a sketch of my life and experience.
Gangooly, Joguth Chunder
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs
The “_bashor ghor_,” or bride’s chamber, is crowded with women
during the night, who entertain the married couple with songs, make
the bridegroom sing, and answer, if he can, some puzzling questions,
enigmas, &c. The reader will notice that here there is allowed free
intercourse in speech between the man and the women. But it should
here be explained that these women must be sisters of the bride or her
brother’s wives, near or distant relations. Her mother or aunts, who
in law would be such to the bridegroom, do not enter into the mirth of
the “_bashor ghor_.” The next morning his father has to pay some
money to the following persons, the policemen of the village, the man
who teaches in the school, the Brahmun who teaches free the Sanscrith
scholars, the men who take care of the temple, images, &c., the poor,
low caste people, and a generous sum to the women who entertain, or
rather plague the night previous. He then starts for his own village
with his wife and some of the servants. Both she and her mother bathe
in tears as they part. Being received at his house, he stands in the
yard on a painted seat, and the girl before him on a dish with milk in
it. She holds a live fish in her right hand, and he stretches out and
puts his hand on her head. Seven married women walk round them seven
times, blowing some _shunko_, and pouring water on the ground
from a pitcher as they walk. Then comes the “bride’s feast,” at which
hundreds from different castes are invited if she be a Brahmun. The
persons invited from the relatives and friends see the face of the
bride, and put some money in her hand. When they see her, the attendant
maid takes off the veil from her face and she closes her eyes. This
mode is very good indeed, for nobody can notice the color and size of
her eyes, whether they are dark blue, brunette, large, small or cross.
When her own caste sit at the dinner, she brings a little rice to some
of the leading men.
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