Life and religion of the Hindoos. : $b With a sketch of my life and experience.Gangooly, Joguth Chunder
Religion
Life and religion of the Hindoos. : $b With a sketch of my life and experience.
Gangooly, Joguth Chunder
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs
then binds their four hands with a cord made of flowers, and causes
them to recognize each other as the lawful husband and wife. The guests
remain sitting during this part of the ceremony, and the father of the
bride, her uncle, or mother, is required to take part in the ceremony
and dedicate her to the bridegroom. At the conclusion the priests
receive their fees, according to some fixed order. For instance, if the
bridegroom pays five dollars to the priest of the bride, her father is
required to pay double the sum to the other priest. The entertainment
of the guests then takes place in the yard, hall, porticos, and other
places. The Brahmuns sit in one place, the Shoodras in another,
and thus each according to the rank held in the caste system. Some
difficulties yet disturb the bridegroom in the dining-room. The women
contrive various sorts of fun to plague him. They set cakes made of
rags, rice made of white corks, on the plate, and milk composed of
white chalk and water,--good things are, of course, given by and by,
but these he dare not touch lest there be other hidden difficulties. In
order to give some distinct idea of the fun the young women practise
on this occasion, I would mention the sad case of my uncle. They dug
a vat in the floor, four feet square and as many feet deep, purposely
to perpetrate a joke upon him, a piece of shaggy carpet was spread for
the seat, supported by frail sticks. Poor uncle! unconscious of the
hidden trap, sat on it, and down he went! In order to add more to his
embarrassment, there was water at the bottom of the vat. Judging from
these, and witnessing other kinds of plagues, I should say the marriage
night is a rather hard time for a Bengalee bridegroom.
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