Life and works of Alexander Csoma de Körös : $b A biography compiled chiefly from hitherto unpublished dataDuka, Tivadar
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Life and works of Alexander Csoma de Körös : $b A biography compiled chiefly from hitherto unpublished data
Duka, Tivadar
Kőrösi Csoma, Sándor, 1784-1842
“If there shall be found any girl with the virtues I have described,
since I like not an unrestrained woman, let her be given to me in
marriage. She who is young, well-proportioned, and elegant, yet not
boastful of her beauty; who is affectionate towards her brother,
sister, and mother; who, always rejoicing in giving alms, knoweth the
proper manner how to bestow them on the priests and Brahmans; if there
be found any such damsel, father! let her be brought to me. One who,
being without arrogance, pride, and passion, has left off artifice,
envy, and deceit, and is of an upright nature; who even in her dreams
hath not lusted after any other man; who resteth content with her own
husband, and is always submissive and chaste; who is firm and not
wavering, who is not proud or haughty, but full of humility like a
female slave; who has no excessive fondness of the vanity of sound,
smell, taste (music, perfumes, and exquisite viands), nor for wine; who
is void of cupidity, who has not a covetous heart, but is content with
her own possessions; who, being upright, goeth not astray, is not
fluctuating; is modest in her dress, and does not indulge in laughing
and boasting; who is diligent in her moral duties without being
righteous overmuch. Who is very clean and pure in her body, her speech,
and her mind; who is not drowsy nor dull, proud nor stupid, but of good
judgment, doth everything with due reflection; who hath for her father-
and mother-in-law equal reverence as for a spiritual teacher; who
treateth her servants both male and female with constant mildness; who
is as well versed as any courtesan in the rites and ceremonies
described in the Shastras; who goeth last to sleep and riseth earliest
from her couch; who maketh every endeavour with mildness, like a
mother, without affectation. If there be any such maiden to be found,
father! give her unto me as a wife.”
Afterwards the King Shuddhodana directs his Brahman minister to go into
the great city of Kapilavastu, and to inquire there in every house
after a girl possessed with these good qualities, showing at the same
time Shakya’s letter, and uttering two verses of the following
meaning:—“Bring hither that maiden who has the required qualities,
whether she be of the royal tribe or of the Brahman caste, of the
gentry or of the plebeian class. My son regardeth not tribe nor family
extraction; his delight is in good qualities, truth and virtue alone.”
The objections of the Buddhists to the seclusion of women may be
gathered from the following imaginary conversation of Shakya’s wife
(extracted from Kahgyur, Do, Kha, vol. i, p. 120, 121). Sa-tsho-ma
(Gopa), the wife of Shakya, upon hearing of her being upbraided by the
domestics for not concealing her face when in company with others,
expresses herself in some verses against the veil, the meaning of which
is as follows:—
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