Life and writings of Amelia BloomerBloomer, D. C. (Dexter C.)
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Life and writings of Amelia Bloomer
Bloomer, D. C. (Dexter C.)
Bloomer, Amelia Jenks, 1818-1894; Women's rights -- United States
“Now supposing, instead of being out lecturing, and home
frequently, this woman had gone away on a three months’ visit to
friends—as many ladies are in the habit of doing—would the press
be as ready to blame her as it now is? Would she be, and are other
women, guilty of all the crime and wrongdoing which she or their
husbands may commit in their absence? And would it be right, would
it be manly, to publicly accuse these women and hold them up to
censure? Is not their suffering already sufficient without this
added sting? Why, pray, is it a more heinous offense to leave home
to lecture than to visit, to travel abroad, or to sojourn for
months at fashionable watering places?
“I know nothing of the domestic affairs of the person referred to.
She has been to some extent a lecturer on temperance. Whether led
into it by pecuniary necessity, or solely from inclination or a
desire to do good, I never knew. But be the case as it may she is
the first woman lecturer, so far as my knowledge extends, whose
husband has ever disgraced both himself and her by such or any
similar crime or any crime at all; while the cases are frequent
of wives who are keepers at home and faithful guardians of family
relations being humbled and disgraced by husbands guilty of all
manner of crimes and wickedness. Men claim to be the stronger both
mentally and physically. Then why are they ready to shoulder upon
women the responsibility of their own wrongdoing? Why make the
so-called ‘weaker vessel’ the scapegoat to bear their sins?
“But it was ever thus. The first Adam, the ‘lord of creation,’
tried to shield himself by accusing Eve and putting upon her the
punishment of his transgression. And all Adams from that time to
this have imitated his weakness and meanness by doing the same
thing. Let the strong bear the burdens of the weak, is I believe
a Scripture injunction, but men have reversed this and put upon
the weak and powerless the burdens they are too cowardly to bear
themselves. In these days the Adams abound and, no matter of what
crime they may be guilty, some daughter of Eve must be made to
sorrow, not only over the fall of a loved one but by seeing herself
publicly accused of being in some way accessory to the crime.
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