Life and writings of Amelia BloomerBloomer, D. C. (Dexter C.)
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Life and writings of Amelia Bloomer
Bloomer, D. C. (Dexter C.)
Bloomer, Amelia Jenks, 1818-1894; Women's rights -- United States
“We hold in all honor the names of those noble women of Mount
Vernon who, a few years ago, boldly entered the rumshop and
gambling house and poured out the liquors and destroyed the
implements wherewith their husbands and brothers had been at
once robbed of their reason and their money, and converted into
dupes and madmen. And we believe, if the same spirit now dwelt in
the hearts of all the women of this beautiful city, that every
rumshop would soon be closed, no matter whether legislators or
councilmen passed ordinances or not. Woman has neither made nor
consented to laws which leave her, and her children, at the mercy
of heartless rumsellers and she should never submit to them. She
has a right—nay, it is her duty—to arise in her own defense and
in the defense of the souls entrusted to her keeping and insist
that, either with or without law, the destroyer shall be driven
from the land. And if men have not the courage to boldly attack
the foe, then let woman meet him face to face and never retire
from the contest till she can do so as a victor. Horace Mann tells
that woman may with propriety go into the dark lanes and alleys of
our great cities and endeavor to conquer men to virtue. If it be
proper for her to visit such haunts of iniquity on such an errand,
it would be far more praiseworthy for her to apply her efforts to
remove the cause which produces vice and crime.”
GOLDEN RULES FOR WIVES.
“Faugh, on such twaddle! ‘Golden rules for wives’—‘duty of
wives’—how sick we are at the sight of such paragraphs! Why
don’t our wise editors give us now and then some ‘golden rules’
for husbands, by way of variety? Why not tell us of the promises
men make at the altar, and of the injunction ‘Husbands, love your
wives as your own selves’? ‘Implicit submission of a man to his
wife is disgraceful to both, but implicit obedience of the wife
to the will of the husband is what she promised at the altar.’ So
you say! What nonsense! what absurdity! what downright injustice!
A disgrace for a man to yield to the wishes of his wife, but an
honor for a wife to yield implicit obedience to the commands of her
husband, be he good or bad, just or unjust, a kind husband or a
tyrannical master! Oh! how much of sorrow, of shame and unhappiness
have such teachings occasioned. Master and slave! Such they make
the relationship existing between husband and wife; and oh, how
fearfully has woman been made to feel that he who promised at the
altar to love, cherish and protect her is but a legalized master
and tyrant! We deny that it is any more her duty to make her
husband’s happiness her study than it is his business to study her
happiness. We deny that it is woman’s duty to love and obey her
husband, unless he prove himself worthy of her love and unless his
requirements are just and reasonable. Marriage is a union of two
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