Life in the forests of the Far East (vol. 1 of 2)St. John, Spenser, Sir
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Life in the forests of the Far East (vol. 1 of 2)
St. John, Spenser, Sir
Borneo -- Description and travel; Natural history -- Borneo; St. John, Spenser, Sir, 1825-1910 -- Travel -- Borneo
In fact, marriage among the Dayaks is a business of partnership for
the purpose of having children, dividing labour, and by means of their
offspring providing for their old age. It is, therefore, entered into
and dissolved almost at pleasure. If a husband divorces his wife,
except for the sake of adultery, he has to pay her a fine of two small
jars, or about two rupees. If a woman puts away her husband, she pays
him a jar, or one rupee. If a wife commits adultery the husband can
put her away if he please; though if she be a strong, useful woman, he
sometimes does not do so, and her lover pays him a fine of one “tajau,”
a large jar equal to twelve small jars, valued at twelve rupees. If a
separation take place, the guilty wife also gives her husband about
two rupees. If a husband commit adultery, the wife can divorce him,
and fine his paramour eight rupees, but she gets nothing from her
unfaithful spouse. There is one cause of divorce, where the blame rests
on neither party, but on their superstitions. When a couple are newly
married, if a deer, or gazelle, or a mouse deer utter a cry at night
near the house in which the pair are living, it is an omen of ill--they
must separate, or the death of one would ensue. This might be a great
trial to a European lover; the Dayaks, however, take the matter very
philosophically.
Mr. Chalmers mentions to me the case of a young Peninjau man who was
divorced from his wife on the third day after marriage. The previous
night a deer had uttered its warning cry, and separate they must. The
morning of the divorce he chanced to go into the “head-house,” and
there sat the bridegroom contentedly at work.
“Why are you here?” he was asked, as the “head-house” is frequented by
bachelors and boys only; “what news of your new wife?”
“I have no wife, we were separated this morning, because the deer cried
last night.”
“Are you sorry?”
“Very sorry.”
“What are you doing with that brass wire?”
“Making perik”--the brass chain-work which the women wear round their
waists--“for a young woman whom I want to get for my new wife.”
CHAPTER VI.
SOCIAL LIFE OF THE LAND DAYAKS--_Continued._
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