Life in the sick-room : $b EssaysMartineau, Harriet
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Life in the sick-room : $b Essays
Martineau, Harriet
Conduct of life; Sick
One of our most valuable discoveries is often made elsewhere, but is not
sufficiently acknowledged and acted upon. We find, after a trial of many
methods, that we learn to endure and achieve less by direct effort than
by putting ourselves under influences favourable to the state of mind
we seek. We have discovered the same thing before, in regard to mending
our faults. We have found that childhood and youth were the seasons of
resolution, and that, perhaps, we have not since cured ourselves of a
single fault by direct effort. I am persuaded that instances are
extremely rare of rectification by such means. I have myself amended
only one bad habit--and that a very trifling one--by express effort,
since I was twenty; and I could point out only two or three, of all my
acquaintance, that I know to be capable of self-improvement in that
direct manner; and I cannot but honour them in proportion to my sense of
the difficulty and rarity of this exercise of moral power. Yet, how
people go on expecting reformation in sinners from a mere conviction of
the reason actuating the will, as they suppose, infallibly! the
consequence of which foolish expectation is, that the true appliances
are neglected. Wordsworth has it--
“‘Resolve!’ the haughty moralist would say:
‘This single act is all that we demand.’
Alas! such wisdom bids a creature fly,
Whose very sorrow is that Time hath shorn
His natural wings!”
Instead of losing time, and practically invoking despair, by exhorting
to impossible flights, wise guardians will rather remove the sufferer
into an element of new enterprise, or one which may gradually exhaust
and destroy his parasitical foes of habit. We sufferers experimentally
ascertain this very soon. We find how little reason we have to trust to
efforts of resolution under circumstances which tend to enfeeble
resolution. We might be capable, as so many others are, of any amount of
effort on a single emergency; but when we have to deal with a permanent
infliction--to make the best of a difficult mode of life--we find that
we must put our trust in abiding influences, and not in a succession of
efforts. We therefore lay aside defiance; we submit ourselves--not to
our troubles--but to every kind of natural preventive, remedy, and
solace. We arrange our personal habits so as to husband our ease, and to
conceal our pain; and we place our minds under such influences,
intellectual and spiritual, as may best nourish our higher powers, and
occupy our energies, to the alleviation, if it may not be to the
exclusion, of the suffering, whose challenge we will neither entertain
nor defy.
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