Life in the sick-room : $b EssaysMartineau, Harriet
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Life in the sick-room : $b Essays
Martineau, Harriet
Conduct of life; Sick
As for our real future home,--the scene where our living selves are to
be,--how is it possible that we should not be often resorting thither in
imagination, when it is to be our next excursion from our little abode
of sickness and helplessness,--when it is so certain that we cannot be
disappointed of it, however wearily long it may be before we go,--when
all that has been best in our lives, our sabbaths, all sunset evenings
and starry nights, all our reverence and love that are sanctified by
death,--when all these things have always pointed to our future life and
been associated with it, how is it possible that we should not be ever
looking forward to it, now when our days are low and weary, and our
pleasures few? The liability is to too great familiarity with the
subject. When our words make children look abashed, and call a
constraint over the manners of those we are conversing with, and cause
even the most familiar eyes to be averted, we find ourselves reminded
that the subject of a person’s death is one usually thought not easy to
discuss with him. In our retirement, we are apt to forget, till
expressly reminded, the importance of distinctions of rank and property
in society, so nearly as they vanish in our survey of life, in
comparison with moral differences; and, in like manner, we have to recal
an almost lost idea, that death is an awkward topic, except in the
abstract, when our casual mention of a will, or of some transaction to
follow our death, introduces an awe and constraint into conversation.
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