Life in the sick-room : $b EssaysMartineau, Harriet
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Life in the sick-room : $b Essays
Martineau, Harriet
Conduct of life; Sick
The liability of us sick is double. We are in danger of forgetting,
amidst the inevitable consciousness of our own improved insight and
foresight, that the activities of life have a corrective as well as a
disturbing influence; and that transient incidents and emotions which do
not reach us, may form real elements of a great question for the week or
the year, though lost in our abstract view of it. In this way, our
judgment may involve great imperfections, which it behoves us to
remember all the more, the less we can supply them. A worse liability is
that to our tempers, of impatience at others not seeing so far as we do.
There is something strange, disappointing and irritating, in finding
those whom we have always regarded as sensible and clear-headed, holding
some expectation which we see to be unreasonable, and offering to our
consideration some fallacy or misty notion, whose incorrectness is to
us as distinct as a cloud in the sky. While religiously careful not to
fret ourselves “because of evil doers,” being so expressly desired, we
are sadly prone to the far worse weakness of fretting ourselves because
of mistaken thinkers. We long to send by a carrier-pigeon the answer or
refutation which seems to us so clear: the post is too slow for us; and
if we do not disburden our minds of their weight of wisdom, we are apt
to spend the night in reiterating to ourselves our triumphant arguments,
in the strongest and most condensed language we can find, till,
exhausted by such efforts, at last the thought occurs to us whether
truth cannot wait,--whether, supposing us ever so right intellectually,
we are not morally wrong in our perturbation. This confession looks
foolish and humbling enough in black and white; but I cannot escape
making it, if, as I intend, I complain of some little injustice on the
other hand, sustained by us.
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