In the last canto of the Iliad we see an old man, a mourner, a father
who kisses the hand of his most terrible enemy, of the man who has
killed his sons, who has just killed his most loved son. Priam, the old
king, head of the rich, ruined city, father of fifty sons, kneels at the
feet of Achilles, the greatest hero, and the most unhappy among the
Greeks, son of the Sea-Goddess, avenger of Patroclus, slayer of Hector.
The white head of the kneeling old man is bowed before the proud youth
of the victor, and Priam mourns for the slain, strongest, fairest, most
loved of all his fifty sons, and kisses the hand of the slayer! “Thou
also,” he says, “hast a grey-haired, failing, defenseless, far-distant
father. In the name of thy father’s love, give me back at least the dead
body of my son.”
Achilles, the fierce, the wild, the slaughterer, puts the suppliant
gently on one side and begins to weep; and both of them, the two
enemies, the conqueror and the conquered, the father bereft of his son
and the son who will never see his father again, the white-haired old
man and the golden-haired youth both weep, drawn together for the first
time by sorrow. The others round about gaze at them silent and
astounded: we ourselves after thirty centuries are shaken by their
grief.
But in the kiss of Priam there is no pardon, there is no love. This king
humbles himself to obtain a difficult and unusual favor. If a God had
not inspired him he would not have stirred from Ilium; and Achilles does
not weep for dead Hector, for weeping Priam, for the powerful man who is
brought to humble himself, for the enemy who is brought to kiss the hand
of the slayer. He weeps over his lost friend; over Patrocles, dearer to
him than all other men; over Peleus, left at Phthia; over his father,
whom he will never more embrace, for he knows that his young days are
numbered. And he gives back to the father the dead body of his son—that
body which he has dragged for so many days in the dust—because it is the
will of Zeus, not because his hunger of vengeance is stilled. Both of
them weep for themselves; the kiss of Priam is a harsh necessity, the
restitution of Achilles is obedience to the Gods. In the noblest heroic
world of antiquity there is no place for that love which destroys hate
and takes the place of hate, for love stronger than the strength of
hate, more ardent, more implacable, more faithful, for love which is not
forgetfulness of wrong, but love of wrong, because wrong is a misfortune
for him who commits it rather than for him who suffers. There is no
place for love for enemies in the world of antiquity.
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