Flight is no better than retaliation. He who hides himself redoubles his
enemies’ courage. Fear of retaliation can on rare occasions hold back
the violent hand, but the man who takes flight invites pursuit. He who
hides invites his adversary to make an end of him. His weakness becomes
the accomplice of the ferocity of others. Here also evil begets evil.
In spite of its apparent absurdity the only way is that commanded by
Jesus. If a man gives you a blow and you return another blow, he will
answer with his fists, you in turn with kicks, weapons will be drawn and
one of you may lose your life, often for a trivial reason. If you fly,
your adversary will follow you and emboldened by his first experience
will knock you down. Turning the other cheek means not receiving the
second blow. It means cutting the chain of the inevitable wrongs at the
first link. Your adversary who expected resistance or flight is
humiliated before you and before himself. He was ready for anything but
this. He is thrown into confusion, a confusion which is almost shame. He
has the time to come to himself; your immobility cools his anger, gives
him time to reflect. He cannot accuse you of fear because you are ready
to receive the second blow, and you yourself show him the place to
strike. Every man has an obscure respect for courage in others,
especially if it is moral courage, the rarest and most difficult sort of
bravery. An injured man who feels no resentment and who does not run
away shows more strength of soul, more mastery of himself, more true
heroism than he who in the blindness of rage rushes upon the offender to
render back to him twice the evil received. Quietness, when it is not
stupidity, gentleness, when it is not cowardice, astound common souls as
do all marvelous things. They make the very brute understand that this
man is more than a man. The brute himself when not incited to follow by
a hot answer or by cowardly flight, remains paralyzed, feels almost
afraid of this new, unknown puzzling force, the more so because among
the greatest exciting factors for the man who strikes, is his
anticipated pleasure in the angry blow, in the resistance, in the
ensuing struggle. Man is a fighting animal; but with no resistance
offered, the pleasure disappears; there is no zest left. There is no
longer an adversary, but a superior who says quietly, “Is that not
enough? Here is the other cheek; strike as long as you wish. It is
better that my face should suffer than my soul. You can hurt me as much
as you wish, but you cannot force me to follow you into a mad, brutal
rage. The fact that some one has wronged me cannot force me to act
wrongly.”
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