Lights and Shadows of New York Life: or, the Sights and Sensations of the Great CityMcCabe, James Dabney
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Lights and Shadows of New York Life: or, the Sights and Sensations of the Great City
McCabe, James Dabney
New York (N.Y.) -- Description and travel; New York (N.Y.) -- Social life and customs -- 19th century
Such lavish expenditure is a natural consequence of a state of society
where wealth is the main distinction. Mrs. John Smith's position as a
leader of the _ton_ is due exclusively to her great riches and her
elaborate displays. Mrs. Richard Roe will naturally try to outshine her,
and thus rise above her in the social scale. Many persons seeking
admission into such society, and finding wealth the only requisite, will
make any sacrifice to accomplish their end. If they have not wealth they
will affect to have it. They could not counterfeit good birth, or high
breeding, but they can assume the appearance of being wealthy. They can
conduct themselves, for a while at least, in a manner utterly
disproportioned to their means, and so they go on, until their funds and
credit being exhausted, they are forced to drop out of the circles in
which they have moved, and the so-called friends who valued them only for
their supposed wealth, instantly forget that they ever knew them. No
more invitations are left for them, they are not even tolerated in "good
society," and are "cut" on the street as a matter of course.
Not a year passes but records the failure of some prominent business man
in New York. His friends are sorry for him, and admit that he was
prudent and industrious in his business. "His family did it," they tell
you, shaking their heads. "They lived too fast. Took too much money to
run the house, to dress, and to keep up in society." Only the All Seeing
Eye can tell how many men who stand well in the mercantile community are
tortured continually by the thought that their extravagance or that of
their families is bringing them to sure and certain ruin; for not even in
New York can a man live beyond his actual means. They have not the moral
courage to live within their legitimate incomes. To do so would be to
lose their positions in society, and they go on straining every nerve to
meet the demands upon them, and then the crash comes, and they are
ruined.
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