Lives of Fair and Gallant Ladies. Vol 1Brantôme, Pierre de Bourdeille
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Lives of Fair and Gallant Ladies. Vol 1
Brantôme, Pierre de Bourdeille
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I have heard tell of a lady so boastful by reason of her chastity that
she did come so to look down upon her husband, that when asked if she
had lain with him, “No!” she would reply, “but he hath lain with me.”
So proud a dame was she! I leave you to imagine how these same silly,
boastful, virtuous wives do chide their poor husbands, even though they
may have naught really to reproach them with. So in especial do such
wives as are chaste and rich likewise. A wife that is at once virtuous
and wealthy in her own right, will ever be playing the disdainful,
haughty, proud and bold lady towards her husband, so that by reason of
the over high value she doth set on her chastity and her well guarded
front, she cannot refrain her from putting on the airs of an empress
and chiding her husband on his committing the smallest fault, as I have
seen sundry do, and above all on his ill way of life. If he gamble, or
be wasteful or extravagant, mightily doth she protest and storm, making
her home to seem rather a hell upon earth than an honourable household.
Then if he need to sell aught of his property to meet the cost of
a journey to Court or to the wars, or of his lawsuits, necessities
or minor follies and frivolous expenses, never a word must he speak
thereof. For such an empire hath the wife assumed over him, resting it
on the strong foundation of her virtue, that her husband must needs
refer all to her judgment, as Juvenal well says in one of his Satires:
“... Animus uxoris si deditus uni,
Nil unquam invita donabis conjuge; vendes,
Hac obstante, nihil haec, si nolit, emetur.”[92]
These lines of the poet show plainly that the ancient Roman dames were
in this matter of an humour much akin to that of many ladies of our own
day. On the contrary, when a wife is something whorish, she will show
herself far more accommodating, more yielding, docile and timid, of a
much gentler and more agreeable disposition, more humble and ready to
do aught her husband may desire, and more complaisant to him in all
things. So have I seen some such which durst never scold or cry out,
nor show themselves cross-gained, for fear the husband should confront
them with their fault and throw their adultery in their face, and make
them to feel the consequences thereof at the cost of their life itself.
Then if the gallant fellow is fain to sell some property of theirs, lo!
their names are writ to the contract before ever the husband have time
to say the word. Many of this sort have I seen. In one word they do
what their husbands please.
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