Lives of Fair and Gallant Ladies. Vol 2.Brantôme, Pierre de Bourdeille
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Lives of Fair and Gallant Ladies. Vol 2.
Brantôme, Pierre de Bourdeille
Erotic literature
Well at the last the Queen in Boccaccio, taking up the word again and
wishing to give a final answer to the question, doth thus conclude:
That the widow is more painstaking of the pleasure of love an hundred
fold than the virgin, seeing the latter is all for dearly guarding her
precious virginity and maidenhead. Further, virgins be naturally timid,
and above all in this matter, awkward and inept to find the sweet
artifices and pretty complaisances required under divers circumstances
in such encounters. But this is not so with the widow, who is already
well practised, bold and ready in this art, having long ago bestowed
and given away what the virgin doth make so much ado about giving. For
this cause she hath no fear of her person being looked at, or her
virtue impugned by the discovery of any mark of lapse from honour; and
in all respects she doth better know the secret ways for to arrive at
her end. Beside all this, the maid doth dread this first assault of her
virginity, which in many women is sometimes rather grievous and painful
than soft and pleasant, whereas widows have no such fear, but do submit
themselves very sweetly and gently, even when the assailant be of the
roughest. Now this particular pleasure is quite different from many
others, for with them a man is oft satisfied with the first experience
and goeth lightly to others, whereas in this the longing to return once
more to the same doth ever wax more and more. Accordingly the widow,
which doth give least, but giveth it often, is an hundred times more
liberal than the maid, when this last doth at length consent to abandon
her most precious possession, to the which she doth direct a thousand
thoughts and regrets. Wherefore, the Queen doth conclude, ’tis much
better for a man to address himself to a widow than to a maid, as being
far easier to gain over and corrupt.
[Illustration: Decorative scrollwork above chapter start]
ARTICLE I
OF THE LOVE OF MARRIED WOMEN
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