Lives of Fair and Gallant Ladies. Vol 2.Brantôme, Pierre de Bourdeille
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Lives of Fair and Gallant Ladies. Vol 2.
Brantôme, Pierre de Bourdeille
Erotic literature
Now of our widows some be alway glad to try marriage once again and run
its risks, like mariners that twice, thrice and four times saved from
shipwreck do again and again go back to the sea, and as married women
do, which in the pains of motherhood do swear and protest they will
never, never go back to it again, and no man shall ever be aught to
them, yet no sooner be they sound and clean again, but they take to the
same old dance once more. So a Spanish lady, being in her pangs, had a
candle lighted in honour of Our Lady of Mont-Sarrat, who much succours
women in child-birth. Yet did she fail not to have sore pain and swear
right earnestly she would never go back to it any more. She was no
sooner delivered but turning to her woman who held the candle still
alight, she said, _Serra esto cabillo de candela para otra vez_, “Put
away that bit of candle for another time.”
Other ladies do prefer not to marry; and of these are always some, and
always have been, which coming to be widows in the flower of their age,
be content to stay so. Ourselves have seen the Queen Mother, which
did become a widow at the age of seven or eight and thirty years,
and did ever after keep that state; and fair, pleasant and agreeable
as she was, did never so much as think of any man to be her second
husband. No doubt it may be said on the other side,—Whom could she
have wedded suitable to her lofty estate and comparable with the great
King Henri, her late lord and master; beside she would thereby have
lost the government of the Kingdom, which was better worth than an
hundred husbands, and its enjoyment more desirable and pleasant? Yet
is there no advantage Love doth not make women forget; wherefore she
is the more to be commended and worthy to be recorded in the temple of
fame and immortality. For she did master and command her passions,—not
like another Queen, which unable to restrain herself, did wed her own
steward of the household, by name the Sieur de Rabodanges.[95*] This
the King, her son, did at first beginning find exceeding strange and
bitter; but yet, because she was his mother, he did excuse and pardon
the said Rabodanges for having married her; and it was arranged that
by day, before the world, he should serve her alway as steward, not to
deprive her, being the King’s mother, of her proper state and dignity,
but by night she should make of him what pleased her, using him either
as servant or master at her choice, this being left to their own
discretion and good pleasure. We may readily imagine who was master
then; for every woman, be she as high-born as she may, coming to this
point, is ever subject to the superior male, according to the law of
nature and humanity in this matter. I have the tale from the late Grand
Cardinal de Lorraine, second of the name and title, which did tell it
at Poissy to King Francis II., the time he did institute the eighteen
knights of the Order of Saint Michael,—a very great number, and one
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